Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (11/11/11)

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please Share My Stuff! You can now “like” and “share” this post everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

Special Notice: Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors will be on hiatus throughout the month of December. I’ll be taking the time to regroup and recharge, and hopefully complete some projects that have been whispering in my ear for awhile. Thanks so much for your support year-round!

 

 

Best Tweets 111111 Unknown Soldier

Photo Credit

@wwpinc “Thanks for all the Veterans Day wishes today!
It’s an honor for us to serve America’s veterans!” ~
Wounded Warriors Project

 
 

Six Standalone Tweets to Ponder

 

@Tamavista “Why do so many question kindness but remain silent in the face of evil? One needs no explanation, the other has none.” ~ Kitamori

@Carlolight “The most valuable gift you have to offer another is the gift of your presence.” ~ Leonard Jacobson

@soulseedz “Anything or anyone that does not bring you alive is too small for you.” ~ D Whyte

@BipolarBatesy “No one can see their reflection in running water. It is only in still water that we can see.” ~ Taoist Proverb

@PsychDigest “The person you were always meant to become is waiting for you just on the other side of the things you fear.” ~ Tom Wright

@karenkmmonroy “Love. How you define it — defines you.”

 

Linked Tweets

 

Suicide Prevention and Aftermath

 

@800273TALK Print this cheat sheet to keep in your wallet so you’ll know when you (or a friend) need to call the Lifeline (PDF)
[SEO: A wallet-sized foldable aid in case of crisis. Lists 12 signs that someone who experienced trauma needs help, and provides the toll-free lifeline number.]

@NAMIMass 11/19 Sat.-13th Annual Internat’l Survivors of Suicide Day. A Day Healing for Bereavement After Suicide
[SEO: “Survivors of suicide loss gather at hundreds of simultaneous healing conferences around the world every year on International Survivors of Suicide Day to connect with others who have survived the tragedy of suicide loss, and express and understand the powerful emotions they experience. If you don’t live near a participating city, or you find it difficult to attend in person, you can watch online and join in a live chat immediately following the program.”]

 

Veterans’ Day

 

@drcherylarutt Check out this new mobile App “PTSD Coach” to help manage symptoms
[SEO: “Together with professional medical treatment, PTSD Coach provides you dependable resources you can trust. If you have, or think you might have PTSD, this app is for you. Family and friends can also learn from this app. PTSD Coach was created by the VA’s National Center for PTSD and the DoD’s National Center for Telehealth and Technology.” Now available on Android, and a free download from iTunes. (By the way, it’s not just for veterans.) Look for PTSD Family Coach coming soon.)]

@psychcentral Healing Together: The Writing of Warriors: Viewing War From the Inside Out
[SEO: “In a project called Operation Homecoming: Iraq, Afghanistan, and the Home Front, in the Words of U.S. Troops and Their Families (Amazon link to updated research edition), they reached out to the 2 million active military and their loved ones and invited them to write about their personal experiences of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan while the events were happening.”

“The result was a total of 2,000 submissions and over 10,000 pages of diaries, poems, emails, letters, fiction and autobiographies from which a final compilation was chosen and edited as a book by Andrew Carroll. The goal of the final manuscript was to be as faithful as possible to the heart and soul of the writings – ‘no matter how jarring or upsetting they be.'” (Warning: The poem included in the post is quite graphic, in a necessary way.)]

@HealingPTSD U.S. Losing the Battle Against Military Suicides
[SEO: “While the report credits the military and the VA for taking a number of steps to stem suicides, it also finds fault with myriad policies and calls for improvements in mental health screening and treatment. It raps the ‘prevailing wisdom’ in the military that suicides are not linked directly to deployments to war.” …

“The report also finds flaws in the mental-health screening process following deployment, in which troops are asked to fill out a health-assessment form that asks questions about their physical and psychological status. A 2008 study found that when Army soldiers completed an anonymous survey, their reported rates of depression, PTSD, suicidal thoughts and interest in receiving care were two to four times higher than the responses on the official forms. The CNAS researchers said that many returning troops lie — and are encouraged to lie — for fear that if they admit to mental health problems, they will not be allowed to go home.”]

@HealingPTSD An important read by a recent veteran, a Marine captain: “On War and Redemption”
[SEO: “When I returned from Afghanistan this past spring, a civilian friend asked, ‘Is it good to be back?’ It was the first time someone had asked, and I answered honestly. But I won’t do that again. We weren’t ready for that conversation. Instead, when people ask, I make it easy for everyone by responding, ‘It’s fine.’ That’s a lie, though. It’s not fine.”]

@heykim Veterans Day: 8 Online Ways to Thank Our Troops (via Mashable)
[SEO: “Today, Veterans Day, we honor those who defend our country. Our service members remind us that there are few things more important than doing what we can to make a difference in the lives of others.”]

 

Child Abuse Prevention

 

@mjdub Molesters Usually Don’t Look Like Molesters
[SEO: “But true or not, the accusations against Sandusky, spelled out in great detail in a 23-page grand jury report, bring to mind many proven cases in which a molester occupied a position of trust, identified and gravitated to children who were especially vulnerable, made them feel special and was by all outward appearances their champion, which many molesters indeed believe themselves to be. In their own minds these molesters aren’t predators. They’re people whose affinity for children just happens to have a sexual element, the satisfaction of which they’ve convinced themselves isn’t such a big, harmful deal.”]

@SarahEOlson2009 How adults justify not reporting child abuse
[SEO: This is so disheartening, as well as infuriating. If doctors don’t get it, somebody has to step up on behalf of children. Don’t be one of those people — doctor or otherwise — who rationalize not reporting child abuse.

“A report out of Boston this week revealed that when doctors were confronted with clear signs of child abuse, they often did not report the injuries to protective services. … ‘They found that reporting was warranted in 13 of the 63 cases doctors chose not to report to authorities. Most of those cases involved leg fractures or bruises to the face or ear, and in six cases the physicians themselves had identified a high likelihood of abuse.’ The researchers concluded that the doctors had adequate training in recognizing abuse, but were not as well informed about why they should report it.“]

 
 

Share My Stuff! ~
  • email
  • Print
  • PDF
  • Add to favorites
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • LinkedIn
  • Technorati
  • Digg
  • StumbleUpon
  • del.icio.us
  • Google Bookmarks
  • FriendFeed
  • Google Buzz
  • Yahoo! Buzz
  • MySpace

Permanent link to this article: http://thirdofalifetime.com/2011/11/11/best-tweets-for-trauma-and-ptsd-survivors-111111/

Favorite TweetStuff (11/11/11) ~ Enjoy! ~

It’s Friday, the day I gather up my favorite items from the Twitterverse, which may be fun, silly, beautiful, odd, or in today’s case, a bit introspective. Today is also Veterans Day in the U.S. — thank a veteran or active duty member for his or her service. Kindness and gratitude go a long way. And now, the TweetStuff! Enjoy!

 

@Quotes4Writers “Don’t learn the tricks of the trade — learn the trade.” ~ Anonymous

@pourmecoffee Listen to Carl Sagan school you on your comical [and cosmical!] insignificance on his birthday.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p86BPM1GV8M&feature=youtu.be

 

@askandimagine “All my best thoughts were stolen by the ancients.” ~ Emerson

@paul_steele Fantastic City Lights At Night Photography
[SEO: Especially beautiful when reflected on large bodies of water.]

then compare the city lights with:

@mjdub Stunning Star Trails Photographed from the Australian Outback
[SEO: Wow! Imagine Van Gogh with a really good camera.]

@AncientProverbs “The aim of art is to represent not the outward appearance of things, but their inward significance.” ~ Aristotle

@goodthingz Pics ~ Human Aerial Art
[SEO: Human “mosaics” involving a lot of people standing in formations that can be seen from a plane or helicopter.]

@Quotes4Writers “You must be prepared to work always without applause.” ~ Ernest Hemingway

@heykim •This year’s biggest pop hits in 4 minutes

@pourmecoffee “First-ever nationwide Emergency Alert System test coming up at 2. Now is time to tell someone you see a weird UFO in sky.”

 
 

Share My Stuff! ~
  • email
  • Print
  • PDF
  • Add to favorites
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • LinkedIn
  • Technorati
  • Digg
  • StumbleUpon
  • del.icio.us
  • Google Bookmarks
  • FriendFeed
  • Google Buzz
  • Yahoo! Buzz
  • MySpace

Permanent link to this article: http://thirdofalifetime.com/2011/11/11/favorite-tweetstuff-111111-enjoy/

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (11/04/11)

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please Share My Stuff! You can now “like” and “share” this post everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

 
 

Best Tweets 1104111 Be Real

Photo Credit

@DrJennifer “It helps all of us
when we give ourselves permission.
It’s so good to be real…”

 
 

Six Standalone Tweets to Ponder

 

@ariannahuff “Fearlessness is like a muscle. I know from my own life that the more I exercise it the more natural it becomes to not let my fears run me.”

@PsychDigest “While the old saying is, ‘What we resist, persists,’ in mindfulness it is, ‘What you accept, transforms.'”

@WisdomalaCarte “When one is out of touch with oneself, one cannot touch others.” ~ Anne Morrow Lindbergh

@Tamavista “Integrity is telling myself the truth. And honesty is telling the truth to other people.” ~ Spencer Johnson

@karenkmmonroy “What holds you to the past? You keep thinking/talking about it. So you keep re-creating it — so you keep talking/thinking ’bout it.”

@DrAthenaStaik “You cannot find peace by avoiding life.” ~ Virginia Woolf

 

Linked Tweets

 

@HuffingtonPost Staggering numbers: A veteran dies by suicide every 80 minutes, new study says.
[SEO: “Faced with the stigma of post-traumatic stress disorder, unemployment rates tipping 12 percent and a loss of the military camaraderie, many veterans report feeling purposeless upon returning home. … The epidemic is raging among those who are currently serving too. From 2005 to 2010, approximately one service member committed suicide every 36 hours, the CNAS study revealed.” Every 36 hours! The study makes ‘big picture’ recommendations which are years overdue.

Meanwhile, as we near Veterans Day (in the U.S. November 11th), think of ways you can support the veterans in your life throughout the year. PTSD doesn’t take a holiday.]

@HealthyPlace Accepting Diagnosis of Mental Illness
[SEO: “At some point in our journey to wellness, most of us hear similar words—We Have a Mental Illness. The first reaction might be one of denial and then relief. Nobody wants to have a mental illness that is stigmatized and requires medication and consistent self-care, but if you have been struggling with the pain of untreated mental illness, having a reason for this is a relief. Knowing that treatment is available is scary but opens doors: life can be stable and productive. But it isn’t easy to accept, not yet. The diagnosis is just the first step many of us take in order to find recovery.”]

@DorleeM 13 Surprising Ways To Fight Headache Pain
[SEO: Discusses alternative therapies including: biofeedback, accupuncture, massage, stretching, aerobics, meditation, yoga, relaxation exercises, heat and cold, avoiding nitrates and nitrites, botox injections (surprised me, too!), transcranial magnetic stimulation, and electrode implants. You never know what might offer some relief.]

@Mindful_Living If you have 10-Minutes somewhere today, go ahead, give yourself a gift and practice this right now. (YouTube)
[SEO: “This is a 10 minute practice to bring with you anywhere and anytime to begin training your mind to be more present to your life and recognize more clarity, opportunity, possibility and choice.” Video by Dr. Elisha Goldstein (@Mindful_Living). I found it very relaxing, and I’m a hard case in that area.]

 

@HealthyPlace When to Disclose an Anxiety Disorder
[SEO: “Following on from last week’s article on why to disclose an anxiety disorder, I thought I’d say a little about when to disclose an anxiety because it is, perhaps, as important as why.” Two excellent posts that provide criteria for the when and why of disclosing any mental health condition.]

@ssanquist 10 Steps to Starting Your Self-Esteem File
[SEO: “Five years ago I walked into my therapist’s office feeling like a Krispy-Kreme doughnut: I had no center. Everything I attempted both professionally and personally flopped. I had no sense of self, no confidence, and no faith in myself. I found nothing of value in my DNA. So she assigned me a project that I have since called “The Self-Esteem File.” Here are 10 steps for starting your own.”

Each detailed step provided is a long term project, and can seem overwhelming to someone who needs help with self-esteem. But that’s kind of the point. It takes a lot of time and practice of healthy thinking and actions to grow self-esteem. There is no overnight fix. This post provides a very useful road map in getting there.]

@DailyTamara Separating Life Stress from Mental Health Relapse
[SEO: “Part of mental health self-care involves identifying potential triggers and avoiding them or, at the very least, preparing for the impact they may have on your life. Those of us who have a mental illness have a harder time adjusting to life changes: relationships, starting a new job or losing an existing one, changing locations, the loss of a loved one. It is ironic, but positive life changes can also have an adverse influence on mood. It’s hard to find balance among all of the different cards that life deals us, but it’s crucial to be able to distinguish circumstantial stress from signs and symptoms of relapse.”]

 
 

Share My Stuff! ~
  • email
  • Print
  • PDF
  • Add to favorites
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • LinkedIn
  • Technorati
  • Digg
  • StumbleUpon
  • del.icio.us
  • Google Bookmarks
  • FriendFeed
  • Google Buzz
  • Yahoo! Buzz
  • MySpace

Permanent link to this article: http://thirdofalifetime.com/2011/11/04/best-tweets-for-trauma-and-ptsd-survivors-110411/

Favorite TweetStuff (11/04/11) ~ Enjoy! ~

It’s Friday, and it really could not come soon enough. I’m especially looking forward to our clocks “falling backwards” early Sunday morning, love that extra hour of sleep! But I digress! Each Friday I collect tweets that are funny, beautiful, unusually breathtaking, and this week, a little bizarre. (Think pumpkins.) Enjoy!

 

@pourmecoffee “A twitter prayer: Now I lay me down to sleep, I pray for no more Kardashian tweets. Amen.”

@heykim OMG ~ AMAZING 1,818.5 lb pumpkin to reveal an incredibly intricate three-dimensional scene
[SEO: Lots of “raw” material to work with!]

@zerohedge “One thing is certain: In the case of the 99% against Jon Corzine, justice will be swerved.”

@OddityCentral Incredibly Realistic Pumpkin-Carved Portraits by Alex Wer
[SEO: I have no idea how he does this. Steve Jobs, Harry Potter, comic book characters, all extremely detailed.]

@HealthyPlace “Some people hear voices.. Some see invisible people.. Others have no imagination whatsoever.”

@mymodernmet Most Expressive Pumpkin Faces Ever!
[SEO: Intricate combined with whimsical. Some are very odd! And some require a human hand prop. ;)]

@AncientProverbs “It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.” ~ Aristotle

@SarahEOlson2009 Meow!! BY G.A Rossini
[SEO: This has been making me laugh all week!]

 

@Carlolight “Words can help to establish a bridge. ~ But once the bridge is crossed. ~ Let the words go.” ~ Leonard Jacobson

@heykim Crazy awesome video – How far would you go for to feel FREE? I Believe I Can Fly
[SEO: Oh. My. God. Two guys show you step by step how they prepare to jump off cliffs with a parachute, and high wire walk across a river gorge without a parachute.]

@WisdomalaCarte “If you fail to go within, you will go without.” ~ Neale Donald Walsch

@TIMECulture Listen to the All-TIME 100 Songs in 180 Seconds

@HealthyPlace “When writing the story of your life, don’t let anyone else hold the pen.”

 

Share My Stuff! ~
  • email
  • Print
  • PDF
  • Add to favorites
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • LinkedIn
  • Technorati
  • Digg
  • StumbleUpon
  • del.icio.us
  • Google Bookmarks
  • FriendFeed
  • Google Buzz
  • Yahoo! Buzz
  • MySpace

Permanent link to this article: http://thirdofalifetime.com/2011/11/04/favorite-tweetstuff-110411-enjoy/

Favorite TweetStuff (10/28/11)

It’s been a long day, and it’s still Friday somewhere. :D Every week I gather my favorite tweets that might be funny, beautiful, thought-provoking, or really odd. Enjoy!
 
 

@Tamavista “What a game! Freese will never buy a drink in St. Louis.”

@WisdomalaCarte “For small creatures such as we the vastness is bearable only through love.” ~ Carl Sagan

@heykim Stunning pic of the Northern Lights out of Lockport, NY (near Niagara Falls)
[SEO: Truly stunning because of its striking red hues with a touch of green, when all I’ve ever seen depicted of Northern Lights has been blues/greens/yellows. It looks like the sky is on fire!]

@Tao23 “Why can you belittle someone but not bebig them?”

@pourmecoffee A double rainbow framed London today

@800273TALK ”We touch other people’s lives simply by existing.” ~ J.K. Rowling

@heykim OMG ~ HILARIOUS ! ROFL… Dog Food Tease
[SEO: The dog is cute, but the really important part is the last line. ;)]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rh_o4mZQlEI&feature=youtu.be

 

@AncientProverbs “You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation.” ~ Plato

 
 

Share My Stuff! ~
  • email
  • Print
  • PDF
  • Add to favorites
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • LinkedIn
  • Technorati
  • Digg
  • StumbleUpon
  • del.icio.us
  • Google Bookmarks
  • FriendFeed
  • Google Buzz
  • Yahoo! Buzz
  • MySpace

Permanent link to this article: http://thirdofalifetime.com/2011/10/28/favorite-tweetstuff-102811/

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (10/27/11)

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please Share My Stuff! You can now “like” and “share” this post everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

 
 
Best Tweets 102811 No Masks

“No Masks” photo credit

@Tamavista “You can’t wake a person
who is pretending to be asleep.” ~ Navajo

 
 

Six Standalone Tweets to Ponder

 

@Pandys “In order to heal my wounds, I must have the courage to face them.” ~ Paulo Coelho

@Tao23 “No amount of devotion will make the untrue true. Always question, always investigate, never have all the answers.”

@DrAthenaStaik “Your emotions say about where you are in relation to where you want to be. Are you listening to understand?”

@karenkmmonroy “There is cold silence and peaceful silence … mistaking one for the other triggers loud.”

@Tamavista “Stress is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are.” ~ Tao

@DrJeffHowlin “It is not I who create myself, rather I happen to myself.”

 

Linked Tweets

 

@ssanquist How to Find a Therapist that is the ‘Right Fit’ for You
[SEO: “Even though evidence has shown that therapy can dramatically improve symptoms of anxiety, depression, and other emotional problems, clients need to find a therapist that is not only qualified, but a good fit.” Good basic info here to help you find that person.]

@HealthyPlace Stop Minimizing Mental Illness: Worst Things to Say.
[SEO: There’ve been several articles of this nature lately, perhaps because so many otherwise intelligent people still don’t get it. This post covers all the bases, and then some. Give it to anyone in your life who needs a nudge (or a push) toward thinking about their personal biases regarding mental illness. Or maybe … that person is you?]

@Mindful_Living A Brief Insight into Everything
[SEO: Includes a 5 step mindfulness process to “then practice to get a front row seat into how your mind works.”

“How does this give us a brief insight into everything? When you come to think of it the mind reacts in the same way to everything. There’s always a stimulus, whether it’s a new project at work, a fight with your friend, or the feeling of the sunshine splashing on your face on a cool fall day. The mind then reacts with a story about that stimulus that then leads to new feeling states. If you know this, it can help pop you out of the auto-pilot reaction and not take your reactions too seriously.”]

@HealthyPlace I Choose Anger Instead of Depression
[SEO: I can admit this makes me a bit queasy, which is a reason I needed to include it here, because I think other people have the same struggles. I grew up with anger issues (mine and my abusers’), and got into trouble for it. Because I didn’t understand my childhood context, anger was scary and punishing. Depression, still, seems so much safer. This post makes a case, with an important caveat, for using the energy and heat of anger to do constructive things, like writing, chores, and errands.

The caveat: “Now don’t get me wrong, I can’t actually get mad at anyone or anything because that would be unfair, and dare I say, crazy, but I can use that heat to move a little from the couch.” Well, that’s been a problem for me with anger. The reaction in the comments is mixed and interesting.]

@SarahEOlson2009 Was Sybil Faking Multiple Personalities?
[SEO: Ohhhh, where to start? This post by Dr. John Grohol covers very well what was already known about controversy over Sybil. (Meaning, much of this is old news.) I have a few personal observations.

  • In the last 20 years, I’ve met (online and in person) about 300 diagnosed multiples. I’ve yet to meet one who didn’t outright wonder if they were making it all up, myself included. It would be so much easier, so much less painful, so much a relief to NOT be dealing with this chaos and anguish. Wondering — or even wishing it — doesn’t make it so.
  • My therapist once said to me, “People who are diagnosed with DID [dissociative identity disorder] spend a lot of time trying to convince me they are ‘truly crazy’, as opposed to being multiple. People who are really crazy just don’t care.”
  • As noted in the convo on Twitter about this, Sybil’s story says much more about boundary violations, than about the validity of the diagnosis. MPD/DID was known many years before Sybil was born. Whatever Sybil did, or her therapist did, does not in any way challenge the validity of my diagnosis, or anyone else’s.
  • This seems to only happen in mental health. So substitute the word “cancer”. Does the person who rips everyone off by lying about their cancer to falsely obtain donations suddenly make everyone else’s cancer diagnosis suspect? Have all those other cancer patients been duped by their doctors, too? Think, people.]

@OneLifeTherapy Can Diet Diminish Depression? Helping Your Body Help Your Mind
[SEO: “So what kind of building blocks have you been giving [your body] lately? Some mental health researchers think all of this matters – a lot. Some feel that the quality of food you eat could be linked to the mental health problems you might face in the years ahead. Others point to common deficiencies in our current western diet, like Omega-3s (which are “related to a number of biological processes that have been found to be associated with depression“). And some highlight the dietary substances you can avoid to potentially ease depression and/or its symptoms ….”]

@HealthyPlace Saturday Night Live’s Darrell Hammond’s Painful Past. Truthful. Painful to watch too.
[SEO: The tweet says it all. A man who’s made millions of us laugh, was often crying inside. And he has the strength to share that with the world.]

 
 

Share My Stuff! ~
  • email
  • Print
  • PDF
  • Add to favorites
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • LinkedIn
  • Technorati
  • Digg
  • StumbleUpon
  • del.icio.us
  • Google Bookmarks
  • FriendFeed
  • Google Buzz
  • Yahoo! Buzz
  • MySpace

Permanent link to this article: http://thirdofalifetime.com/2011/10/27/best-tweets-for-trauma-and-ptsd-survivors-102711/