Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (02/17/12)

I am honored to have my Twitter feed included in this list of 50 Best Twitter Feeds for Psychology Majors! Go check out the other 49, broken out into these categories: News; Organizations; Patients; and Professionals.

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please Share My Stuff! You can now “like” and “share” this post everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

 
 
 
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Standalone Tweets to Ponder

 

Twitter’s new ability to embed tweets so prettily inspired me to change my format here. Each week I’ll showcase one of my tweets, and several from other contributors. These include everything you need to follow or share. I’m loving Twitter even more now! :) Next week I will work on a format for embedded tweets with links.
 
 

 
 
 

 
 
 

 
 
 

Linked Tweets

 

@dylansmoosie TELL and TELL and TELL If you are being sexually abused, you need to choose an adult you trust and @JustTell. Help is here.
[SEO: An educational site for both children and adults. “JustTell was created to educate and empower children and adults around the issue of childhood sexual abuse. On the kids’ pages of the site, we encourage children who are being sexually abused to choose an adult in their life who they trust, and to tell that adult about the abuse.” There is information for adults about what to do when a child tells about being abused. Don’t assume that your kids, or kids entrusted to you (i.e., you’re a teacher), know what to do. Tell them to tell. Be proactive.]

@NAMIMass How to Help Someone with a Mental Illness
[SEO: “I talk to many people who want to help a person with a mental illness. Often the people they want to help are loved ones who have just been diagnosed with a mental illness and those who want to help feel powerless. The ‘helpers’ have a hard job, but let me just say, we love you for it.”

This is the go-to post for anyone wanting a clearer understanding of how to interact with a mentally ill person, and ancillary issues dealing with care-taking. As in the above quote, the post is sprinkled with links to other posts dealing in specifics for those issues. If you’re the mentally ill person, give a copy of this, with the links, to your loved ones. It’s that important!]

@HealthyPlace Our new anxiety blogger, @JodiAman , starts Wed. Find out more about Jodi here.
[SEO: Jodi’s new blog is called Anxiety-Schmanxiety. She is an LCSW, and self-described “former anxiety sufferer”. Her first blog post is My Introduction to Anxiety at Age 5.]

@ssanquist 4 Things to Remember When You Can’t Take It Anymore | Bounce Back: Develop Your Resiliency
[SEO: “Ever feel like you can’t take it anymore? There is an essential resiliency skill that will help you not only take it, but bounce back from the really tough emotional times in your life. It has to do with perspective.”

@SarahEOlson2009 Practicing Validation
[SEO: “Emotional validation means acknowledging and expressing acceptance of someone’s thoughts, feelings and behaviors as understandable. Sometimes understanding someone else’s thoughts and feelings requires a lot of work because the way they think makes no sense to you.” If you’re that person seeking validation, this post and others listed in its right sidebar can help you, and the people who care about you, to understand the importance of validation in every day life.]

@thethirdsunrise Recovering From Mental Illness is Exhausting
[SEO: Post examines the phases of mental illness, and how exhausting each one truly is. (The Diagnosis; Side Effects, Complications, From Medication; Life After Diagnosis.) But all of this, put into perspective, shows why recovery is worth the effort.]

@LillyAnn Self Kindness: Seven Habits That Will Help You Live a Happier Life
[SEO: Excellent article. Trauma survivors can benefit from these habits, perhaps even more than others. “Some people tend to focus a little too much on the outside world. They try to help the people there and be of service at the expense of their own lives and mental and physical health. Others tend to focus too much on their own thoughts and what is happening inside of their heads. And so much over-analyzing is done and beliefs that everyone cares more than they do about what you do are formed and strengthened. The solution here is to find a bit more balance.”]

 
 
 

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Favorite TweetStuff (02/17/12) ~ Enjoy! ~

I never thought I’d say that I love the new New Twitter, but that day has arrived! It was just foisted upon me this week, and to my astonishment Twitter will do all the heavy lifting in formatting and embedding tweets for me. You can see how gorgeous they look below, and all their buttons are live, so please follow and share. Plus, I’ve got a lot of videos this week! Enjoy!
 
 

@heykim Chocoholics — Sculptor carves room entirely out of Chocolate!
[SEO: Fabulous chocolate carvings and artwork! And then they ate it! Seriously.]

 

 
 

@heykim Whitney — I will always love you
[SEO: This was my favorite song going back to Linda Ronstadt’s version. I didn’t think it could get any better till I heard Whitney do it. You won’t find many songs that so clearly convey — both musically and lyrically — the mixed feelings of love, longing, sadness, letting it go, and acceptance all at the same time. Rest in peace, Whitney.]
 

 
 

 

@SuePeaseBanitt Happy Valentine’s Day Google Doodle: This is utterly adorabibble!

 

 
 

 
 

@pourmecoffee Insane rope swing
[SEO: Yes, it is! Filmed in Moab, Utah, home of incredible rock formations that people think are great to jump off of. (Well, yes, with a rope. So? Yikes.) At the end of the video you can also view the making of this video.]

 

 
 

@PetaPixel Stunning photos of the northern lights floating over an Icelandic volcano
[SEO: This looks so alien, even with the guy standing in front of the volcano field.]

 

 
 
 

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Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (02/10/12)

I am honored to have my Twitter feed included in this list of 50 Best Twitter Feeds for Psychology Majors! Go check out the other 49, broken out into these categories: News; Organizations; Patients; and Professionals.

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please Share My Stuff! You can now “like” and “share” this post everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

 
 
 

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@HealthyPlace “People take different roads
seeking fulfillment and happiness.
Just because they’re not on your road
doesn’t mean they’re lost.” ~ Dalai Lama

 
 
 

Six Standalone Tweets to Ponder

 

@zebraspolkadots “Awareness is the opposite of avoidance. To break behaviors that help us avoid life is to choose to live in awareness.”

@HealthyPlace “Acceptance and tolerance and forgiveness, those are life-altering lessons.” ~ Jessica Lange

@DrAthenaStaik “We cannot do everything at once, but we can do something at once.” ~ Calvin Coolidge

@PsychDigest “The bend in the road is not the end of the road unless you fail to make the turn.”

@PemaQuotes “So the challenge is how to develop compassion right along with clear seeing, how to train in lightening up and cheering up…”

@StevenHandel “We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.” ~ Kurt Vonnegut

 

Linked Tweets

 

@SarahEOlson2009 PTSD: Symptoms, Treatment and Self-Help (via helpguide.org)
[SEO: Extensive, well-organized resources for all things related to PTSD. A good place to start if you are new to the diagnosis, or to give loved ones to help them understand more about PTSD. The PTSD index is in the right column; other possibly related topics are in the left column.]

@HealthyPlace Supporting Someone with Bipolar: For Family and Friends
[SEO: This link provides a compendium of articles on Healthy Place pertaining to supporting a person with bipolar, whether by friend, spouse, or other family member. An excellent resource that anyone diagnosed with bipolar should point their loved ones to for support.]

@PsychCentral Healing Together: Why Can’t We Speak About Rape? Finding a Voice
[SEO: Although found in a blog focused on couples, this comprehensive, thoughtful look at rape and its impact is for anyone dealing with it, whether as part of a couple or not. It also can help anyone wishing to better understand rape’s devastating effects upon a loved one.]

@SarahEOlson2009 Psychiatric News Alert: Antipsychotics May Cause Diabetes By Thwarting Crucial Pathway
[SEO: “Antipsychotics — some of the most prescribed medications in the United States — can interfere with normal metabolism by activating a protein in the transforming growth factor beta pathway…. Moreover, antipsychotics known to cause obesity and diabetes were found to activate this pathway, whereas antipsychotics that are not known to raise risk of obesity and diabetes did not.”

When TV commercials rattle off potential side effects of specific drugs, pay attention to “may raise blood sugar” or “may cause weight gain”. If I were not already an overweight diabetic (in which case, those drugs will never be offered to me), I’d never want to take on the risk of becoming one via these drugs. Be your own best advocate. Know what you are being prescribed, and what the risks are. Discuss it with your doctor.]

@LillyAnn The Pause Upon Which All Else Relies (via @zen_habits)
[SEO: “When we fail, it’s because we act on urges without thinking, without realizing it. … What if instead we learned to pause after each urge? What if we stopped, looked at that urge, paid close attention to what it feels like inside our bodies, but didn’t act? The urge would no longer control us. We would be able to make conscious choices that might be healthier for us, help us be happier. If we can pause, we create space. Space to breathe, to think, to be without acting.”]

@PTSDandYOU We Are Failing Our Veterans With PTSD: The Life and Death of Sonny Mazon (via @HuffingtonPost)
[SEO: “He didn’t get the help that he needed to heal the pain of his memories from Afghanistan, and as he withdrew from his friends and family he descended into an abyss of sadness. His relationship with his girlfriend had always been problematic, but it became violent. He hurt her badly in a fit of rage, was arrested for domestic abuse, and chose to end his life. We shouldn’t whitewash over the violence of his actions, but the context of his life story does help us to see his crime in a different light.”

These issues — increasing suicides, substance abuse, potential for domestic abuse — are not going away any time soon. It is in everyone’s best interests that the U.S. Government do far more than it currently is to provide timely effective treatment — without the stigma attached — to our service members.]

@kbellbarnett Gawker Confessions of a Therapist: Are psychologists allowed to publish their clients’ secrets? (via @slate)
[SEO: “Can your shrink spill your secrets? Yes, if your identity is concealed.” Article discusses ethics involved and potential violations, and the difference between ethics required of a “therapist” vs. a “psychologist”. Long before my personal story was published in my book, I expressly gave my therapist permission to discuss my case in whatever format he deemed appropriate. If this is an issue for you, discuss it with your clinician.]

@Mindful_Living Getting Unstuck from Automatic Negative Thinking
[SEO: “Simply the knowledge that your thoughts are more inclined toward the negative primes your mind to begin to question these thoughts as they come. For example, in a moment you find your mind swirling on negative details you may start to also have a thought arise, ‘my mind has a bias toward the negative.’ This thought pops you into a mindful space, a moment of clarity and choice that I call The Now Effect.”

“In this space you will have the awareness to ask the question ‘Is this thought true? What evidence do I have for this thought? Is there another way I can see this situation?’ This opens the door to see opportunities and possibilities you never knew existed.”]

@natasha_tracy Acceptance of Bipolar [or any Mental] Disorder is a Process
[SEO: (While the original post is aimed at bipolar diagnosis, its author also tweeted the post using the more generic “mental disorder” descriptor. Anyone recently diagnosed with any mental disorder can benefit from this post.) “The diagnosis of a mental illness is a loss. No, it’s not the loss of your mind, but it’s a loss. It’s a loss of your understanding of who you are. It’s a loss of how you see yourself. It’s a loss of control. It’s a loss of many things depending on the impact of your personal illness. And losses beget grief. Or losses beget grieving, and grieving is a process.”]

 
 
 

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Favorite TweetStuff (02/10/12) ~ Enjoy! ~

It’s mid-February already! How does that happen?! I lost a month somewhere. But Twitter’s on the case, and I’ve always got a record of items I found funny, beautiful, whimsical, and just plain weird. Enjoy!

 

@pourmecoffee Class Act. Tiquan Underwood, cut by Patriots night before Super Bowl, tweets this
[SEO: Yo Giselle! Take a note or two.]

@natasha_tracy “Start every day off with a smile and get it over with.” ~ W. C. Fields

@ashwinsanghi 10 Breathtaking Viewing Platforms Worldwide
[SEO: If that Grand Canyon horse-shoe observation deck had been available when I was a kid, we wouldn’t have had to form a human chain latching onto my Mom who was holding my Dad’s belt as he hung over the edge for that “one of a kind” picture! Whatever, these viewing platforms are mostly not for the faint of heart. (Some still may require a human chain!)]

@HealthyPlace “In the book of life, the answers aren’t in the back.” ~ Charlie Brown

@Alyssa_Milano The cutest art-making otter you’ll see all day
[SEO: “Savage” is an art exhibition for a good cause, and includes a slide show of the artwork!]

@AncientProverbs “As for me, all I know is that I know nothing.” ~ Socrates

@goodthingz Ice Skating the Famous Canals of Amsterdam (via @twistedsifter)
[SEO: It hasn’t been much of a winter (in Boston, anyway) so this is offered to anyone missing ice. ;) (But Boston may be getting some snow tomorrow!)]

@AncientProverbs “Every path has its puddle.” ~ English proverb

@iAppleLearner The 20 Most Beautiful Bookstores in the World
[SEO: These bookstores are destinations in themselves. Just gorgeous!]

@WisdomalaCarte “Teachers open the doors, but you must enter by yourself.” ~ Chinese proverb

 
 

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Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (02/03/12)

I am honored to have my Twitter feed included in this list of 50 Best Twitter Feeds for Psychology Majors! Go check out the other 49, broken out into these categories: News; Organizations; Patients; and Professionals.

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please Share My Stuff! You can now “like” and “share” this post everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

 
 
 

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@Tamavista “Think you’re escaping
and run into yourself.
Longest way round is
the shortest way home.” ~ James Joyce

 
 

Six Standalone Tweets to Ponder

 

@StevenHandel “There are years that ask questions and years that answer.” ~ Zora Neale Hurston

@PsychDigest “The person you were always meant to become is waiting for you just on the other side of the things you fear.” ~ Tom Wright

@WisdomalaCarte “The only real person you need to know is you.” ~ Alice Cooper

@PsychCentral “Speak thy thoughts, declare the truth thou hast, that all may share; Be bold, proclaim it everywhere: They only live who dare.” ~ Voltaire

@iamwun “We cannot be present and run our story-line at the same time.” ~ Pema Chodron

@soulseedz “From the perspective of responsibility, it’s always your move.”

 

Linked Tweets

 

@VA_PTSD_Info Returning home and coping with combat stress. Learn about issues facing returning troops. Hosted by Tom Brokaw.
[SEO:”These videos aim to help promote wellness in this returning group of veterans and to prevent chronic mental health issues resulting from combat and other war-zone stress. It is available both as a video for veterans, active duty service members and their families, as well as a version with provider perspectives.” At site, see link to either download the video or a transcript in .PDF format.]

@BobbiEmel Giving Up vs. Giving In: Is There A Difference? | Bounce Back: Develop Your Resiliency
[SEO: “Herein lies the common misunderstanding: letting go is not so much about giving up as it is about giving in. It’s not about just standing by, doing nothing, as your house goes into foreclosure. But it is about giving in to the reality of your current situation and letting go of judgments and expectations you might have about the outcome. … The trick is to be able to work toward your goals or out of a difficult situation without being completely locked into just one result being acceptable.”

@OneLifeTherapy If “Eternity Is Now” Then What Will You Do With It?
[SEO: “There’s a saying that you might have heard floating around a bit like that: ‘Eternity is now.’ If it’s true, then what will you do with this gift of now that’s somehow, miraculously, inexplicably, landed in your lap? This now. And this one.” Post discusses various therapies (existential, gestalt, mindfulness) that focus on the “now”, and asks what you will do with your moment of “now”, right now.]

@HealthyPlace Life Before and After the Diagnosis of Mental Illness
[SEO: “The person you were before, the person you are working to become, is still the same person, but accepting that it takes work to become well, to believe that you will, allows you to both merge your past and present. To become a whole person. A person defined by both times in your life.”]

@ssanquist 6 Ways to Stay Resilient in Stress (via Beyond Blue)
[SEO: “It’s an awful lot easier to stay resilient, even if you have a severe mood disorder, when you’re not encased in stress. When you have all that cortisol—the backstabber hormone—mucking around in all of your biological organs, staying sane is about as easy as getting off a chair lift for the first time, or so it feels.]

@SarahEOlson2009 Write Your Heart Out | The Gentle Self
[SEO: Post gives many reasons why writing/telling/sharing your story is valuable. This is just one of them: “Putting thoughts into words and words on paper has a meditative quality to it: Writing creates awareness of who we are and why we do certain things. It’s a way to explore and analyze the self, and we learn more about what drives us and what we want from life.”]

@Kkellbarnett “They Are A Part Of Who I Am”: A Reader’s Experience with Meds
[SEO: Post describes comments made by a reader answering specific questions about the when and why of starting/finishing psychiatric meds, and how the reader felt about using them, in terms of necessity, stigma, and outcomes. The reader has a very balanced viewpoint regarding a hot topic. The title is a bit misleading in that the meds which helped her to become who “she is” are part of her past. She states that she is no longer on psychiatric meds, with her psychiatrist’s blessings.]

@HealingToolKit Unbreakable Blog Helps Rape Victims Heal [through art]
[SEO: Sometimes a seemingly small idea resonates so strongly as to create a movement. “Grace Brown, a freshman photography student at New York’s School of Visual Arts, started her Tumblr blog, Project Unbreakable, in October, after a friend shared a story of sex abuse. Brown came up with the idea to photograph victims holding posters with quotes from their own attacks, featuring words said to them by their attackers.” Participants feel more empowered and can take back control over those words that have haunted them.]

@ssanquist Coping With A Stressful Situation: Manage Your Emotions
[SEO: “Whether you’re dealing with an emotional bully (see previous post about adult bullies) or other difficult situation, one of the first steps is to comfort yourself and manage your emotions. The part of the brain that is responsible for decision-making and planning cannot function as well when you are filled with emotion. Acting on emotions without the thoughtfulness of the logical part of the brain usually means trouble.” Post describes the “What Skills” and “How Skills” of mindfulness practice.]

 
 
 

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In this week of endless mindless Super Bowl hype, there are alternatives! Like, the bunny Super Bowl. And the Puppy Super Bowl which takes place at the same time as the game. Don’t get me wrong, I’ll be watching the game — on Sunday. When it’s actually happening. Meanwhile, there’s so much on Twitter this week that is fun, beautiful, stunning, and delightful! Enjoy!

 

@WisdomalaCarte “Reality has always had too many heads.” ~ Bob Dylan

@AmazingPics Woah! Milky Way Above the Himalayas — Stunning photography

@soulseedz “Maybe the universe cares but has a great poker face.”

@pourmecoffee Rabbit Super Bowl just completed
[SEO: Oh my. People actually train rabbits to jump hurdles!]

 

@HealthyPlace “There is one word which may serve as a rule of practice for all one’s life — reciprocity.” ~ Confucius

@ashwinsanghi Amazing Works of Art You Need a Microscope to Appreciate
[SEO: Sculptures in the eye of a needle, on the tip of a pencil, in cutaway leaf art? The tiniest origami you will ever see? All of this stuff is stunningly good.]

@pourmecoffee “If we all stipulate right now that Madonna is old, we can save Twitter approximately 100 bazillion tweets on Sunday.”

@visityourself “Epiphanies happen by accident, but meditation makes us ‘accident prone.'”

@Splinteredones Silas’ cross-training program has helped him lose 4% of his body weight this month!
[SEO: A special happy birthday wish to @Splinteredones!]

@beingzen “For poets, words are noises that have musical reverence.. “

@pourmecoffee Gorgeous, surreal photo of rivers in desert that look exactly like trees

@AncientProverbs “Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” ~ Confucius

 
 

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