Favorite TweetStuff (08/24/12) ~ Enjoy! ~

Every Friday I highlight favorite items from my Twitter stream. They might be funny, beautiful, odd, or just something really cool. Enjoy!

 

@WritersNetGuide “Always read something that makes you look good if you die in the middle of it.” ~ P.J. O’Rourke

@petapixel The Curiosity rover’s descent into Mars as an amazing HD video

and

@MarsCuriosity In tribute, I dedicate my landing spot on Mars to you, Ray Bradbury. Greetings from Bradbury Landing!
[SEO: How fitting this honor, on what would have been Bradbury’s 92nd birthday.]

@BerryCashmere “To die for an idea it is unquestionably noble. But how much nobler it would be if men died for ideas that were true.” ~ H.L. Mencken

@NASAKepler Imagine having 2,300 planetary neighbors. New animation illustrates all the Kepler candidates orbiting a single star.
[SEO: Just … wow! It’s truly hard to believe that we’re the only occupied planet. Just sayin’.]

 

‏@WritersNetGuide “He was such a bad writer, they revoked his poetic license.” ~ Milton Berle

@pourmecoffee This was drawn with Bic ballpoint pens.
[SEO: Photo-realism done with Bic pens!]

‏@HealthyPlace “There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” ~ Ernest Hemingway

@SarahEOlson2009 The Top 25 Cutest Pictures Of Cats And Babies
[SEO: Sometimes I just gotta have more cats in my life. ;)]

 
 
 

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Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (08/18/12)

This week’s focus: News and Views

I am honored to have my Twitter feed included in this list of 50 Best Twitter Feeds for Psychology Majors! Go check out the other 49, broken out into these categories: News; Organizations; Patients; and Professionals.

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

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Best Tweets 081812 Cracks of Light

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@WisdomalaCarte “There is a crack in everything,
that is how the light gets in.” ~ Leonard Cohen

 
 

Some Tweets to Ponder

 

@SoulHealr “If you tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything.” ~ Mark Twain

@HealthyPlace “Stand up to your obstacles and do something about them. You will find that they haven’t half the strength you think they have.” ~ Norman Vincent Peale

@LillyAnn “Dismiss whatever insults your soul.” ~ Walt Whitman

@PsychCentral “if you are lucky enough to find a way of life you love, you have to find the courage to live it.” ~ John Irving

 

Linked Tweets

 

News and Views

 

@NAMIMass Americans need to focus on the fact that the mental health care system is already in crisis.
[SEO: An excellent post about the Aurora, Colorado shootings: “Public discussion initially focused on the wide availability of guns in our society. It has now shifted to the question of whether or not the mental health care system failed leading up to the tragedy. It is an issue addressed eloquently in USA Today by Pete Earley in a guest column, ‘Massacres No Excuse to Stigmatize the Mentally Ill.'” Lots of food for thought here.]

@vetawareness Saddest statistics ever. RIP brothers.
[SEO: Scroll down the page for the story “Army Releases July Suicide Data”. It’s grim, but as a nation we must stop looking away. The July numbers pretty much doubled the June numbers. “Army officials said 187 active-duty and reserve soldiers have committed suicide so far in 2012. Last year’s total was 283.” And these numbers don’t include veterans!

Where is the outrage, America? An entire generation of American active duty members and veterans is obviously being given grossly inadequate mental health care. It’s not entirely about stigma, either. It’s also about money. And politics. And that those last two are even in the mix is shameful.

NOTE: At the bottom of the linked article you will find links to numerous suicide prevention resources for military members, veterans, and their families. These include crisis helplines, and suicide prevention training resources for families.]

 

The Rest of the Best

 

@SarahEOlson2009 Harborview Center for Sexual Assault ~ Creating the Trauma Narrative
[SEO: This free treasure trove of 11 .pdf client handouts can help you (preferably with your therapist’s guidance) to create a trauma narrative — to tell your story and help make sense of it. The .pdf handouts range from describing your feelings about being abused, how it has affected you, a letter to the perpetrator, remembering what happened, telling the sexual assault secret, and much more.]

@ssanquist On Loneliness
[SEO: “Loneliness isn’t just a case of the sniffles that can be cured by a singing Hallmark card. It’s associated with increased risk of heart disease, higher rates of inflammatory disease, and diminished immune function. …”

“Like depression, loneliness can become unbearable in that so much shame is attached to it. University of Massachusetts sociologist Robert S. Weiss, one of the first researchers to study the theory of loneliness and a prominent expert on the topic today writes in his book, Loneliness: The Experience of Emotional and Social Isolation: ‘So great is the shame of the lonely . . . that they are wary of each other’s company — a bit like Groucho Marx, who believed that any club that admitted him could not be worth joining.'”]

@BeyondMeds Just accept it: The voices are real
[SEO: Growing up, I heard many voices inside me. I knew from age five to never reveal them because my mother threatened to throw me in the “crazy house” if I kept up my stories of being abused by her “family friend”. I never ever admitted to hearing voices until after she died 30 years later, and even then, it was said out loud with tremendous fear that my therapist was also going to lock me up. But not all inner voices are evidence of insanity.

This post argues that hearing voices could actually be viewed as something normal. Read it with an open mind. And check out this blogger’s index of all her posts which deal with the experiences of voice hearers.]

@PsychCentral Why Shouldn’t You Spank Your Kids? Here’s 9 Reasons
[SEO: These nine reasons go much deeper than “because it’s politically incorrect”. They deal with the psychological messages conveyed when a child is spanked. But beyond those very real messages, the one that gets me (as I was spanked/hit till age 14) is the basic truth that “No one can learn when they are afraid.”

Well, that’s not entirely true. I did learn how to dissociate.]

 
 
 

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Favorite TweetStuff (08/17/12) ~ Enjoy! ~

It’s been a hard week for me, and for others I care about. Please excuse this abbreviated post, as I am weary, not much sleep last night. This video below both uplifts and reminds me that there is still so much beauty and joy in the world. And it’s just plain delightful! Enjoy!
 
 

@SarahEOlson2009 Som Sabadell flash mob ~ Beethoven’s 9th, Ode to Joy ~ This is wonderful!
[SEO: The world could use a little more joy these days.]

 
 
 

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Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (08/10/12)

This week’s focus: Verbal Abuse Resources

I am honored to have my Twitter feed included in this list of 50 Best Twitter Feeds for Psychology Majors! Go check out the other 49, broken out into these categories: News; Organizations; Patients; and Professionals.

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please Share My Stuff! You can now “like” and “share” this post everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

 
 
 
Best Tweets 081012 Strong Children

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@Tamavista “It is easier to build strong children
than to repair broken men.” ~ Frederick Douglass

 
 
 

Some Tweets to Ponder

 

@CarePathways “We have the power within us to heal ourselves. We do not have the power to heal our experience.”

@LillyAnn “A thought is harmless unless we believe it. It’s not our thoughts, but attachment to our thoughts, that causes suffering.” ~ Byron Katie

@PemaQuotes “As unwanted feelings and emotions arise, you actually breathe them in and connect with what all humans feel.”

@zebraspolkadots “The fear was that no one would help me. The peace came when I learned how to help myself.”

 

Linked Tweets

 

News and Views

 

@heykim Paterno’s family says it will appeal NCAA sanctions against Penn State; NCAA says no appeals for sanctions.
[SEO: Ooops. In case anyone thinks it’s extraordinary the lengths to which Paterno’s family will go to deny any wrongdoing, well, no. It plays out every day when abuse survivors go public (even if only to their own family).]

@DrKathleenYoung Boy Scout files reveal repeat child abuse by sexual predators
[SEO: Yet another ‘beyond reproach’ youth organization with secret files on pedophiles in their ranks. “Los Angeles Times review of Boy Scout documents shows that a blacklist meant to protect boys from sexual predators too often failed in its mission.” Clergy abuse, Boy Scouts, sports coaches… wake up, people! These are not random, blown out of proportion events. Child abuse is very common, if you’re willing to take a good look — but don’t look if you’re not willing to do anything about it.]

 

About Verbal Abuse

 
[*HealthyPlace.com maintains a wide range of very helpful mental health resources. I realized upon seeing a series of their tweets this week that I’ve been remiss in not spotlighting verbal abuse much here.]

@HealthyPlace Effects of Verbal Abuse on Children, Women, Men
[SEO: “Verbal abuse causes people to feel fear. However, victims may deny or not recognize their anxiety and feelings of wanting to get away as fear of the abuser. When the victim feels kindness or love from the abuser, they know that it is short-lived and abuse will reoccur. Victims live in a constant state of hyper-awareness, watching for clues of impending abuse. Victims can’t trust the smile of someone they love, and that is a very big deal.”

@lnw7 “The damage from verbal abuse is not easily visible but goes much deeper than physical abuse = soul erosion.”

@HealthyPlace Examples of Verbal Abuse
[SEO: “Most verbally abusive statements are camouflaged, but some are blatantly obvious. Verbal abuse underlies all other forms of abuse because words and tone can be easily manipulated to mean something other than what is said and ‘You misunderstood me!’ is such an easy way out.”]

@HealthyPlace Do you know Signs and Symptoms of Verbal Abuse?
[SEO: “First, let’s define verbal abuse signs as different from verbal abuse symptoms. Verbal abuse signs are your observations about the person who is verbally abusive towards you. Things the verbal abuser does and says that affect your thinking, beliefs, or emotions. Verbal abuse symptoms are your observations about you. Symptoms live inside of you, so others may or may not notice them.” This excellent post lists signs and symptoms; read this if you have any doubts or concerns about being verbally abused.]

 

The Rest of the Best

 

@patriciasinglet How to listen to a friend with PTSD
[SEO: “Listening to someone who has PTSD talk about what happened to them is a challenge. If your friend, lover, significant whatever, has post traumatic stress, they want to talk about what happened. They need to talk about it. You want to help and you’re willing to listen. Brace yourself. It won’t be easy.” An excellent post on how to listen and respond to a person with PTSD in ways which will both help him/her, and not cause you to go into overload.]

@PsychCentral Isolation and Solitude, Two Very Different Things
[SEO: (Note: I don’t know if you need to ‘like’ this page in order to see it.) PsychCentral asks on its Facebook page: “In your opinion, what’s the difference between solitude and isolation?” Most mental health resources give isolation a negative connotation, as do many of the 50+ commenters who replied on Facebook. Perhaps it’s just perspective, but I think both have a place in mental well-being — and mental illness. The trick is to know yourself, your limits, and to be able to apply them in moderation. What say you?]

@800273TALK Writing in a journal is not only therapeutic, but a great way to get to know yourself better and deal with issues.
[SEO: “Journaling helps you connect to your inner wisdom, which is especially important in our noisy world. … There are so many voices out there telling you who to be, how to act, what to do. It also comes in handy when those loud voices are coming from inside.” Post includes five writing prompts from Sandy Grason, author of the book Journalution: Journaling to Awaken Your Inner Voice, Heal Your Life and Manifest Your Dreams.]

 
 
 

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Favorite TweetStuff (08/10/12) ~ Enjoy! ~

Busy week, lots of favorites to choose from! Whether it’s from the Olympics or from Mars, it’s inspiring, beautiful, and uplifting. Enjoy!

 

@Quotes4Writers “We do not write in order to be understood, we write in order to understand.” ~ Cecil Day-Lewis

@DrKathleenYoung Gabby Douglas responds to hair comments: ‘I just made history, and people are focused on my hair?’
[SEO: Gabby Douglas (Olympic gold medalist in gymnastics team and all-around individual) is a force to be reckoned with! She said she’s not changing her hair, so basically, deal with it. An excellent role model for teenaged girls everywhere who are bombarded with daily messages about everything that is superficial about them.]

@800273TALK “I don’t believe you have to be better than everybody else…be better than you ever thought you could be.” ~ Ken Venturi

 

The Curiosity Has Landed

 

@MarsCuriosity Zoom. Enhance. This “CSI: Mars” video shows evidence of my landing strewn across Gale crater
[SEO: Against some pretty strong odds, the Mars Curiosity Rover was successfully deployed on August 5th. Very cool! And the Rover tweets, sometimes with a bit of snark!]

 

@pourmecoffee “Would be exciting for Curiosity to unfurl enormous pirate flag and blast Wagner. Doubt it will happen.”

@Gizmodo This image of MSL Curiosity descent taken from space is unbelievable cool. Incredible pic!
[SEO: “The HiRISE camera NASA’s Mars Reconnaissance Orbiter was able to spot Curiosity as it was descending on the surface of the red planet. You can clearly see the capsule and the deployed supersonic parachute.”]

@MarsCuriosity It once was one small step… now it’s six big wheels. Here’s a look at one of them on the soil of Mars.

@MarsCuriosity No photo or it didn’t happen? Well lookee here, I’m casting a shadow on the ground in Mars’ Gale crater.

 

The Rest of the Best

 

@LillyAnn Beautiful :) Incredible Stage! A library of gigantic fairy tale books at the Tomorrowland Festival in Belgium

@HealthyPlace “One of the definitions of sanity is the ability to tell real from unreal. Soon we’ll need a new definition.” ~ Alvin Toffler, futurist

@Quotes4Writers “I write because I’m afraid to say some things out loud.” ~ Gordon Atkinson

@Alyssa_Milano Full moon rises through Olympic Rings (via @reuters)
[SEO: What a shot!]

@Quotes4Writers “The beautiful part of writing is that you don’t have to get it right the first time unlike, say, brain surgery.” ~ Robert Cormier

 
 
 

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Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (08/03/12)

This week’s focus: suicide prevention resources

I am honored to have my Twitter feed included in this list of 50 Best Twitter Feeds for Psychology Majors! Go check out the other 49, broken out into these categories: News; Organizations; Patients; and Professionals.

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please Share My Stuff! You can now “like” and “share” this post everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

 
 
 
Best Tweets 080312

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@Tamavista “Knowing others is wisdom,
knowing yourself is enlightenment.” ~ Lao Tzu

 
 
 

Some Tweets to Ponder

 

@CarePathways “Many questions will be asked of you in your lifetime…but you do not have to always know the answers.”

@WisdomalaCarte “If a man cannot change the world these days, I still believe a man can change his own destiny.” ~ The Alarm

@zebraspolkadots “Learning to listen to my ‘self’ began with being mindfully aware of the parts of me that made me ‘me’. Thought, belief, physical sensation.”

@HealthyPlace “Support the type of thinking that leads you to feeling good, peaceful and happy.” ~ Allan Lokos

 

Linked Tweets

In the News

 

‏@DrKRandle The Colorado Shootings and Mental Illness: As a Nation we still don’t get it!
[SEO: Discusses public perception of mental illness when tragedies occur. Makes the case that while severe mental illnesses such as bipolar and schizophrenia are thought to be biologically based, at the same time their caregivers are limited by civil rights as to how far they can go to force those ill people to get help.

“The Aurora murders not only destroyed and injured innocent movie-goers, causing great pain and suffering, they also further stigmatized persons with mental disorders. A poster already being circulated on the Internet belittles mental illnesses, dismissing them as a flimsy excuse for Holmes’ actions. It is important to remember that persons with mental illnesses are more likely to be victims of violence than to harm others and that Loughner, Cho, and possibly Holmes, are not representative.”

@sheelaraja What an inspiring story! For Judo Champion, a Painful Path to Gold
[SEO: Kayla Harrison, the Olympic gold medal winner in judo, a first for the USA, had previously told ‘the rest of the story’ in response to the Sandusky trial. She was repeatedly abused from age 13 to 16 by her judo coach. In 1997, he was convicted and is serving a 10 year sentence.

“And she told about how she was a mess — desperate, unhappy and ready to give up on everything — when within weeks her mother, Jeannie Yazell, took her from Ohio to study judo with Jimmy Pedro and his father, Jim Pedro Sr., at Pedro’s Judo Center in Wakefield, Mass. ‘We just felt like she just had to get back to what she knew how to do,’ Yazell said. ‘She could have control over what went on on the mat.'” This is truly story of triumph over evil.]

 

Suicide Prevention

 

@natasha_tracy What to do if Someone Threatens Suicide on Facebook
[SEO: “Suicide threats should always be taken seriously. Half of all people with bipolar disorder attempt suicide and up to one-in-five successfully complete a suicide so please, these threats are not words to take lightly.” This post spells out what steps to take to try to help the suicidal person online. Also read the follow up post: Suicide Resources on Facebook, which includes screen shots from Facebook.

(SEO: And always know that you can call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) if you are struggling emotionally or thinking about suicide.)]

@PsychCentral Are We Our Brother’s Keeper? Dealing with Suicide on Facebook, Online
[SEO: Dr. John Grohol, founder of Psych Central, adds to Natasha Tracy’s posts (see above), about what to do when Facebook isn’t enough, or the suicidal person is not on Facebook or even in the same country. Lots of valuable links in this post.]

@DCoEPage The time is now to reverse the heartbreaking trend of soldiers taking their own lives every day (via @TIME)
[SEO: The statistics on military suicides are getting worse, not better. “To emphasize the silent, tragic epidemic that is sweeping across the U.S. military, consider this one statistic, which was brought to light in a recent TIME magazine article: ‘More U.S. military personnel have died by suicide since the war in Afghanistan began than have died fighting there.’ Let me rephrase that, just to make sure you understood the above statistic: Since the start of the Afghanistan war in 2001, there have been more soldier suicides than soldier combat deaths.”

 

The Rest of the Best

 

@MentalHelpNet Training the Self-Care Habit
[SEO: “The important thing here is that self-care is a major factor in feeling well and being resilient in difficult times. But there are some simple ways to get your brain in the habit of self-care.”]

@PsychToday What NOT to say to people with chronic pain or illness
[SEO: (ETA: The link shows as broken, but it works fine. I’ve tried several fixes with the same result.)
This post is based on ‘invisible illness’ such as Fibromyalgia or chronic fatigue syndrome, and how people who suffer from those invisible illnesses are often treated by friends and family. Many people diagnosed with PTSD are also dealing with both physical and mental ‘invisible’ conditions that may seem ‘fixable’ by uninformed or uncaring people. Read this categorized post, and the comments, for validation that these uninformed, uncaring people are just wrong. And you aren’t the only person being tormented by them.]

@PsychCentral How to Get Things Done When You’re Depressed
[SEO: “So the last thing you want to do is… anything. You might think ‘I’d like to do this, but I just can’t,’ Preston said. But there are several ways you can get things done when you’re struggling with depression. They do require effort on your part, but they work.” Post outlines five ways you can help yourself to get things done. It also discusses getting too much sleep when depressed, and tips to stabilize your sleep patterns.]

 
 
 

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