Favorite TweetStuff (week ending 06/11/10)

Fridays come more swiftly it seems, as spring gives way to warmer temps and temptations. Still, I like to pause to consider the things in my tweet stream that make me smile or recognize a bit of myself. Then there’s the just plain quirky stuff to which I am always attracted. Enjoy!

But first …

@Fighting_Soul Are you feeling as helpless with this oil spill disaster as we are? Take a look at this list of ways to help. (via @RevoltRealWomen)
[SEO: Article written 05/21/10; updated 06/07/10. It’s never too late to get involved.]

Now the best of everything else …

@SFkeiko “Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one.” ~ Albert Einstein

@WritersQuotes “… all of humanity is born with more gifts than we know. Most are born geniuses and just get de-geniused rapidly.” ~ Buckminster Fuller

@stelayordanova Outstanding figurative sculptures, creativity combined with traditional woodcarving
(via @DesignTherapy @Maria_bg)

@DharmaTalks “Synchronicity is the little gift of confirmation that the universe gives us to show us that we are on our path.”

@KMWeiland “A writer is a person for whom writing is more difficult than it is for other people.” ~ Thomas Mann

@WritersQuotes “The tooth fairy teaches children that they can sell body parts for money.” ~ David Richerby
[SEO: Remember the good old days when innocent things were not marred by new realities? Okay, me neither.]

@AmazingPics New Set Of Beautiful Macro Photos | bigpicture.in
[SEO: Close-up photography is its own artform.]

@WritersQuotes “Way too much coffee. But if it weren’t for the coffee, I’d have no identifiable personality whatsoever.” ~ David Letterman

@empowermentguru “They are ill discoverers that think there is no land, when they can see nothing but sea.” ~ Francis Bacon

@goodthingZ Apple’s Amazing “Hyperwall” of Apps (Wow!) (video) (via @mashable)
[SEO: The ultimate in “oooh shiny!” :) ]

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Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors (week ending 06/11/10)

Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please add your candidates for Best Tweets For Trauma Survivors in the comments. It’s a Best Tweets bumper crop here, so let’s get started!

A tribute to John Wooden, may he rest in peace

@LZeefe “Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.” ~ John Wooden

@Jason_Pollock “You can’t live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you.” ~ John Wooden

@Alyssa_Milano “Talent is God given. Be humble. Fame is man-given. Be grateful. Conceit is self-given. Be careful.” ~ John Wooden

Standalone Tweets

@AffirmYourLife “Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood.” ~ Helen Keller

@Tamavista “Before you can find yourself, you must first be lost.” ~ Kitamori

@sia_ky “This is the first, wildest, wisest thing I know — the soul is built entirely out of attentiveness.” ~ Mary Oliver

@CarePathways “Change requires leaving our comfort zones and plunging headfirst into uncomfortable situations.”

@dose_of_love “The more you own and forgive your darker sides, the less you need to attract them externally in others.” (via @LisaKiftTherapy)

@DrCesa “Self-understanding, rather than self-condemnation is the way to inner peace and mature conscience.” ~ Joshua L Lieberman (via @ssanquist)

@dahara “The way is not in the sky. The way is in the heart.” ~ Buddha

@NoSocialAnxiety ‘When we no longer need to pretend to be something we’re not, we feel authentic and alive.”

@LillyAnn “The very best thing you can do for the whole world is to make the most of yourself.”

@soulseedz “Say to yourself: I am a force for healing. My head, heart and hands work together for the good of all.”

@soulseedz “Every breath contains healing power, and mindful breathing is one simple thing you can do to restore wholeness to your body.”

@therapy4help “Today, I will relax, breathe deeply, and go with the flow….”

@LillyAnn “When I want to speak, let me first think: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? If not, let it be left unsaid.”

@AffirmYourLife “You never know when one act or one word of encouragement can change a life forever. “ ~ Zig Ziglar

@drcmblake “Good actions give strength to ourselves and inspire good actions in others.” ~ Plato ☆ (via @zbluemoon)

@Tamavista “To be fully alive is to feel that everything is possible.” ~ Eric Hoffer

@LillyAnn “You cannot say that you have mastered love until you include yourself in its embrace.” ~ Alan Cohen

Linked Tweets

@EFF Opt-Out Required to Prevent Your Yahoo! Mail Contacts From Being Used for Social Network (with opt-out instructions)

@PromisePlace How and When to Talk to Your Child About Sexual Abuse | Psychology Today

@MSF_USA “MSF psychiatrist Dr. Maryvonne Bargue talks about the impact of the earthquake in Haiti four months later.”
[SEO: This helps me to put my own troubles into perspective, and to renew my gratitude for all I have in my life.]

@psychcentral “It’s not easy, but it’s important. A must-read on how to respect your body.
[SEO: Not easy for many people, but I think survivors of physical/sexual abuse additionally must rise above the old tapes saying that violation of body boundaries isn’t under your control, which (for me at least) turned the body into an enemy.]

@Mindful_Living Bad Habits: Do You Have a Choice?

@psychotherapi Surviving Anxiety, Depression & More
[SEO: A helpful Squidoo site maintained by @psychotherapi]

@800273TALK (two separate links here) 1 in 10 of returning soldiers report PTSD or depression. We have a program for service members
[SEO: See also their programs for help for anyone contemplating suicide or their loved ones/friends.]

@afspnational Learn what AFSP is doing to educate students and teachers about depression / suicide risk. #morethansad

@drcmblake 50 Ways to Open Your World to New Possibilities (Via tinybuddha.com)
[SEO: You could easily make each of these suggestions a project. Some will take longer than others, but all are worthwhile goals.]

@grace2244 Art Therapy: How can it help?
[SEO: A growing community of child abuse survivors are using the Polyvore website (www.polyvore.com) as hands-on art therapy. The site lets you choose “sets” of art objects and arrange them as you would a collage. @grace2244 is a prolific artist, always thought-provoking, and you can see any of her artworks by looking at her Twitter profile (twitter.com/grace2244) and clicking on any of the Polyvore links she has posted there. This linked post provides detailed explanation (follow the text above the artwork to below it) as to how survivors can best use Polyvore in therapeutic ways. Excellent!]

@mental_news Scientists develop pill that erases traumatic memories
[SEO: I’ve had moments where I’ve wished fervently that there was just a pill to make it all go away. But really. You have to ask yourself here, “What could possibly go wrong?” The mind reels.]

@dragonheartsong “This is really good info, especially for dissociative folks.” ~ PTSD Healing Thought of the Day (via HealMyPTSD.com)

@MindfulBoston Can your breathing be smooth, like the waves of the ocean?
[SEO: Step by step, what you can do right now to relax and de-stress. Very helpful!]

@DeborahSerani Feeling depressed increases pain perception that *is* real

@HealMyPTSD What to do about money?
[SEO: Some basic info to deal with the double whammy of being too deeply affected to keep working while obtaining required treatment gets expensive. Been there.]

@goodthingZ 3 Steps To Practice Acceptance and Have a Peaceful Life (These work…) (via Tiny Buddha)

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Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors (week ending 06/04/10)

Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please add your candidates for Best Tweets For Trauma Survivors in the comments.

Standalone Tweets

@natashabadhwar “If I had a better idea of what I am doing, I suspect I’d have less courage to do it.” (via @BeyondMeds)

@CarePathways “Wherever you are, is just fine. You can get to wherever you want to be from wherever you are.”

@pinwheelgirl “The minute you begin to do what you really want to do, it’s really a different kind of life.” ~ Buckminster Fuller

@LillyAnn “We don’t have ‘issues’. Instead we have energies, stories, and emotions that need awareness, acknowledgment and acceptance.”

@AffirmYourLife “Miracles come in moments. Be ready and willing.” ~ Dr Wayne Dyer

@LillyAnn “If you surrender completely to the moments as they pass, you live more richly those moments.” ~ A. M. Lindbergh

@TWLOHA “And that is how change happens. One gesture. One person. One moment at a time.” ~ Libba Bray (via _amandajo)

@Tamavista “Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” ~ Anais Nin

@lizstrauss “To be brave is to be vulnerable. That paradox is what makes a hero.”

@unmarketing “If you are your authentic self, you have no competition. Be your greatness.”

@LillyAnn “Truth: Anything that keeps you from growing is never worth defending.”

@therapy4help “Dealing with these unclaimed darknesses in ourselves isn’t easy — we hang onto our denial fiercely.”

@WritersQuotes “When you play it too safe, you’re taking the biggest risk of your life. Time is the only wealth we’re given.” ~ Barbara Sher

@healingtrauma “Figure out what your capabilities and strengths are, and then introduce them to your fear — one at a time.”

@AffirmYourLife “Act so as to encourage the best in others, and by so doing you will develop the best in yourself.” ~ Felix Adler

@Maura_Aura “Find the good. It’s all around you.” ~ Jesse Owens

@AffirmYourLife “Goodness is the only investment that never fails.” ~ Henry David Thoreau

Linked Tweets

@McaylaSarno A helpful quiz for kids on identifying strangers (brace yourself)

@goodthingZ 7 Keys to Discovering Your Life’s Purpose…Today
[SEO: Answer these seven question sets; the answers are intended to “point you in the direction of your gifts”. It also helps you focus on positive aspects of your life, so don’t downplay your ideals or accomplishments.]

@ssanquist PTSD and Unemployment
[SEO: Timely topic. Being unemployed is bad enough, but unresolved past trauma can be exacerbated by adding long term unemployment to the mix.]

@PsychToday A Procrastination Test to Uncover Procrastination Patterns — When you know where you stand on procrastination, you know what to change.

@copyblogger Is F.E.A.R. Holding You Back? (via @ElyssaD)
[SEO: False Evidence Appearing Real. That’ll do it for me.]

@unsuicide Need to talk? International list of people who listen and care, 24/7

@MichelePTSD The Value of Reaching Out: 6 Questions for Building Your Support System – Free live teleseminar 6/10 9PM EST

@TWLOHA Here’s today’s Memorial Day blog, in case you missed it earlier.
[SEO: Without doubt, the most moving article I read this week concerning Memorial Day. “Please remember the ones who can’t forget, the soldiers forever trying to get home, trying to let go, to be okay…” Read this in its entirety.]

@WRY999 “Thanks to all our vets in the U.S. on this Memorial Day! I’ve posted some PTSD resources on Brain Posts #SOT

@webmiss007 NIMH ~ Coping with Traumatic Events
[SEO: Many links to government resources and information.]

@ssanquist The Difference Between Depression and Losing Your Mojo | Psychology Today

@drcmblake 40 Ways to Let Go and Feel Less Pain Via Tiny Buddha

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Favorite TweetStuff (week ending 06/04/10)

My Favorite TweetStuff is (are?) items I rescue from my Tweet stream every Friday that are funny, true, whimsical, things that make me say “hmmm”, and of course, weird and/or breathtaking photography. Today there’s also free Sarah McLachlan music! Enjoy!

@WritersQuotes “Thank you, cat, for hitting my caps lock key whenever you jump near me.”

@DrAverySlyker “When all think alike, then no one is thinking.” ~ Walter Lippman

@SarahEOlson2009 “Gorgeous song! *Free* download/Amazon ‘Forgiveness’ [mp3+video] by @SarahMcLachlan from new CD ‘Laws of Illusion'”
[SEO: Gorgeous and sad, but that’s kind of how Sarah McLachlan is, and why I love her music. BONUS: I have a Sarah McLachlan page here on my blog, with some relatively obscure recordings, most of them acoustical versions of some of her biggest hits.]

@therapy4help “One joy scatters a hundred griefs.” ~ Chinese Proverb

@CarePathways “Maturity is the time of life when, if you had the time, you’d have the time of your life.” ~ Unknown

@AmazingPics Underwater Landscape Photos ~ National Geographic
[SEO: Beautiful pix that you can set as desktop wallpaper. Link is to first .JPG in the series, use controls on the page to move through the gallery.]

@LillyAnn “Information is just bits of data. Knowledge is putting them together. Wisdom is transcending them.” ~ Ram Dass

@BeautyofWisdom “The gift of dead ends is that there is nowhere else to go but somewhere else.” ~ Barbara DeAngelis

@WritersQuotes “Doing is a quantum leap from imagining.” ~ Barbara Sher

@petapixel Photos of animals big and small
[SEO: A lot of these are whimsical, like the man sitting on a bench with a reindeer on a leash, or the penguins with a tiny soccer ball. Or an argonaut (octopus) that has evolved with a better understanding of physics than I’ll ever have. :) ]

@LillyAnn “I would rather have my mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief.” ~ G. B. Shaw

@WritersQuotes “Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties.” ~ Erich Fromm

@AmazingPics Natural Pareidolia: 13 Faces on Trees – Oddee.com
[SEO: I had to look it up, too! Pareidolia: (from Wikipedia) a psychological phenomenon involving a vague and random stimulus (often an image or sound) being perceived as significant. Common examples include seeing images of animals or faces in clouds, the man in the moon, and hearing hidden messages on records played in reverse.]

@1person “When the bird and the book disagree, always believe the bird.” ~ birdwatcher’s proverb

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New Blog Added to Dissociation Blog Showcase (DBS)!

Special Request: If you find value in this blog showcase, please add the Dissociation Blog Showcase link to your blogroll so others can find it. Thanks!

We have amazing writers amongst us who give insight and hope to anyone struggling with dissociation, or to their loved ones. It’s a brain trust, and I treasure it. When I find new blogs, I update the Dissociation Blog Showcase (DBS) on Sunday evenings. Tonight I’ve added the following new blog:

TEARS BEHIND THE SMILE — A JOURNEY THROUGH THERAPY

Please use the DBS link above to access this blog, and check out the entire directory of (currently) 147 dissociation-related blogs!

As always, be careful and safe. Many of these blogs do not provide trigger warnings, nor are they obligated to do so.

I need your help! If you, or someone you know, experiences dissociation and blog about it, write to me with the URL at

sarah.e.olsonATgmailDOTcom

I review each blog before adding it to the Showcase. Thanks so much for the feedback and well-wishes for this project!

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Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors (week ending 05/28/10)

Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please add your candidates for Best Tweets For Trauma Survivors in the comments.

Standalone Tweets

@zakaraya “Everyone in the world should be able to sleep without fear, at least for one night.” ~ Amma

@cpchad “We have the ability to form conclusions both true and false … simultaneously.”

@LoriThrives “When we are afraid of anything, we are saying it has the power to hurt us. We give fear power by believing in it.”

@PsychDigest “Experience is not what happens to you; it is what you do with what happens to you.” ~ Aldous Huxley

@Maura_Aura “I believe that one of life’s greatest risks is never daring to risk.” ~ Oprah Winfrey (RT @kellyshipp)

@abusesurvivors “Don’t let the mistakes and disappointments of the past control and direct your future.” ~ Zig Ziglar

@LillyAnn “In order to change anything you must first accept it as it is, not your concept of how it should have been.”

@rcinstitute “Emotional healing involves developing a powerful inner warrior who rejects the inner critic’s messages.”

@esoterismo “How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.” ~ Dr. Wayne Dyer

@Tamavista “When the Self is known, all illusions vanish. The veil falls, and you see clearly.” ~ Hindu Wisdom

@drcmblake ☆↺☆”S U R R O U N D Yourself with People… who BELIEVE YOU CAN!” ~ Dan Zadra

@soulseedz “Consider the outrageous improbability of your existence and give thanks. You are a miracle.”

@SarahEOlson2009 “It will all come together … happiness that returns just because, fear that gets lost when pointless … I believe this.”

@Quotes4Writers “Do the thing we fear, and death of fear is certain.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

@AffirmYourLife “Life is full of obstacle illusions.” ~ Grant Frazier

Linked Tweets

@drcmblake 50+ Simple 30-Second Ways to Bring Tranquility To Your Life
[SEO: Excellent resource! Lots of ways to calm yourself in various situations. Also, Breathing Is Good.]

@TherapyOnline Mental Health Apps Like a Therapist in Your Pocket
[SEO: iPhone apps for therapeutic benefit are growing ever more sophisticated, and certainly will gain more widespread use both with availability, and considering the lack of face to face resources for many people in need.]

@healmyptsd Common PTSD questions

@drcmblake The Tao Of Productivity (Via Zen Habits)
[SEO: I’ve about got a lock on the “master non-action” part. :)]

@AboutPsychology “The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction, not a destination.” ~ Carl Rogers, On Becoming a Person
[SEO: A collection of Carl Rogers quotes at the link.]

@psychcentral Proof Positive: Chicken Little Goes to Resilience Therapy (via @patriciasinglet)
[SEO: Amusing and clever “transcript” from the therapy session of Chicken Little discussing process of how to not catastrophize everything. :) ]

@drcmblake The Halfhearted Yes: Why We Don’t Say No and How to Start (Via Tiny Buddha)

@hyblis Why your biggest lie is to yourself (via @FindingMelissa @woundedgenius)

@HealMyPTSD Like to read? HealMyPTSD.com is starting a free monthly book club
[SEO: On the info page for the book club at the link, also scroll to the bottom for an excellent list of resources related to PTSD.]

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