Six New Blogs Added to Dissociation Blog Showcase (DBS)

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We have amazing writers amongst us who give insight and hope to anyone struggling with dissociation, or to their loved ones. It’s a brain trust, and I treasure it. When I find new blogs, I update the Dissociation Blog Showcase (DBS) on Sunday evenings. Tonight I’ve added the following six new blogs:

Chaos and Control

Don’t Call Me Sybil

Living with Mental Illness

Lothlorien

MY LIFE WITH A MULTIPLE

Undercoverdid’s Blog

Please use the DBS link above to access these blogs, and check out the entire directory of (currently) 157 dissociation-related blogs!

As always, be careful and safe. Many of these blogs do not provide trigger warnings, nor are they obligated to do so.

I need your help! If you, or someone you know, experiences dissociation and blog about it, write to me with the URL at

sarah.e.olsonATgmailDOTcom

I review each blog before adding it to the Showcase. Thanks so much for the feedback and well-wishes for this project!

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Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors (week ending 06/25/10)

Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please add your candidates for Best Tweets For Trauma Survivors in the comments.

Standalone Tweets

@CarePathways “Knowledge speaks, but wisdom listens.” ~ Jimi Hendrix

@dontcallmesybil “Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this, too, was a gift.” ~ Mary Oliver

@Maura_Aura “We have a choice every day — to act on yesterday’s good intentions or get an early start on tomorrow’s regrets.” ~ Robert Brault

@Tamavista “It is only by risking … that we live at all.” ~ William James

@sojourner5 “Love means to love that which is unlovable; or it is no virtue at all.” ~ G.K. Chesterton

@Tamavista “The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.” ~ Carl Rogers

@TrendyDC “ღ Compassion and tolerance are not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength.” ~ Dalai Lama

@DalaiLama “Compassion instills a sense of calm, inner strength, and a deep confidence and satisfaction.”

@CoachCecily “I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness the astonishing light of your own being.” ~ Hafiz (via @CourageIsChange)

@MindfullyChange “You panic your way to nowhere and relax your way to everywhere.” ~ Unknown

@SanityJournals “What part of you has been holding back, but really wants to leap out and be expressed?”

@bella_yogini “The soul always knows what to do to heal itself. The challenge is to silence the mind.” ~ Caroline Myss

@BlondeTXGoddess “Let your Love decide, not your Fear.” (via @TheDailyLove)

@dustmapper We can’t undo trauma, but we can transcend it. (via @BeyondMeds)

@Jason_Pollock “Pay it Forward! Ask yourself this: ‘What have I done today for someone else?'”

@Maura_Aura “Compassion is hard; it requires the inner disposition to go with others to a place where they are weak, vulnerable, lonely, and broken. ~ Nouwen

@LollyDaskal “Listening intently to someone is one of the best ways I know of to honor that person and forge a deep human connection.”

@Tamavista “There is a calmness to a life lived in gratitude, a quiet joy.” ~ Ralph Blum

Linked Tweets

@RichBassett The Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) Information Page ~ comprehensive information and support” (via @padschicago)
[SEO: David Baldwin’s Trauma Page has been on the Internet at least 15 years, and was the original go-to site for information dealing with PTSD and trauma issues. He has not updated since November 2006, but there is a wealth of resources here.]

On Stress and Relaxation

@tlomauro Why Relaxing Is Hard Work ~ WSJ.com
[SEO: People who live stressed lives often find it very difficult to relax. This article delves into the “why”, and offers tips to overcome it.]

@CognitiveTherap How to Put Boundaries Around Worry
[SEO: Very helpful 9 page slide show about various aspects of worry, and how to deal with it in healthy ways.]

@drcmblake How to Deal with Exhaustion: 10 Tips to Function Better When You’re Tired (via Tiny Buddha Blog)

@anothernuday Relaxation Music 19 – Tea Song of the Xiang River
[SEO: See also the whole series of relaxation music videos at this site. Beautiful soaring nature photography and gentle music.]

@psychcentral Need help relaxing? Here are a few great relaxation techniques to calm the body.

The Best of the Rest

@ssanquist Authentic Self-Esteem
[SEO: Excellent article about what authentic self-esteem is, and isn’t, and how modern advertising distorts our perceptions of reality.]

@goodthingZ Boost Your Body Image by Journaling
[SEO: Acknowledges that journaling has long been a tool in treating emotional eating, and offers the idea that journaling can improve one’s body image and self-image. Lots of good tips!]

@woundedgenius Art therapy project for trauma survivors (via @woundedgenius)
[SEO: @littlesheffele is writing a book on art therapy for all types of trauma survivors, and seeks volunteers to test the book’s activities and provide feedback on them. See the article for details.]

@ssanquist Dr. Deb: 10 Tips for Ethical Parenting
[SEO: A book review of “Good Kids, Tough Choices” by Rushworth M. Kidder, which includes Kidder’s 10 tips for ethical parenting.]

@PromisePlace 12 Questions Parents Should Ask About Child’s Mental Health
[SEO: Know the signs; know what to do. Your kids are depending on you.]

@nytimeshealth Can You Die of Insomnia?
[SEO: As a chronic insomniac, I’ve had my moments where I wondered about this.]

@thereseborchard Four Steps to Free Yourself from Limiting Beliefs

@Anxiety_Wisdom Practice Of Mindfulness Can Relieve Depression And Anxiety (via EmpowHER.com)

@DrMarsha 5 Simple Ways To Be A Better Listener (via @GuyKawasaki)
[SEO: We all want to be heard. Most of us could also be better listeners.]

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Favorite TweetStuff (week ending 06/25/10)

Hurray, it’s Friday, and it’s not suffocatingly hot in Boston today! I celebrate this. :) Meanwhile, here are my favorites, rescued from my ever-faster TweetStream this week. Enjoy!

@WritersQuotes “I love cats because I love my home and after a while they become its visible soul.” ~ Jean Cocteau

@goodthingZ “PICs and info ~ 7 Beautiful and Extraordinary Natural Sites (these are on my bucket list!)”

@unfolding “I have the sneaking suspicion I woke up on the other side of the mirror some time ago….”

@Minervity The First House Made Entirely From An Old Airplane! (via @Maria_bg)

@WritersQuotes “There are two kinds of people, those who finish what they start and so on.” ~ Robert Byrne

@real_thinktank The moment lightning struck twice in the same place at the same time
[SEO: Pictures in Chicago taken June 24, 2010, as heavy duty storms rolled through.]

@ssanquist I dream of Prozac (via @WoundedGenius)

@empowermentguru “I believe in the imagination. What I cannot see is infinitely more important than what I can see.” ~ Duane Michaels

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Four New Blogs Added to "Dissociation Blog Showcase" (DBS)

Special Request: If you find value in this blog showcase, please add the Dissociation Blog Showcase link to your blogroll so others can find it. Thanks!

We have amazing writers amongst us who give insight and hope to anyone struggling with dissociation, or to their loved ones. It’s a brain trust, and I treasure it. When I find new blogs, I update the Dissociation Blog Showcase (DBS) on Sunday evenings. Tonight I’ve added the following four new blogs:

confessions of a … tormented soul

Poems, Pain and Healing

PTSD CREATIVE WRITING

Sanctuary and Serenity

Please use the DBS link above to access these blogs, and check out the entire directory of (currently) 151 dissociation-related blogs!

As always, be careful and safe. Many of these blogs do not provide trigger warnings, nor are they obligated to do so.

I need your help! If you, or someone you know, experiences dissociation and blog about it, write to me with the URL at

sarah.e.olsonATgmailDOTcom

I review each blog before adding it to the Showcase. Thanks so much for the feedback and well-wishes for this project!

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Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors (week ending 06/18/10)

Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please add your candidates for Best Tweets For Trauma Survivors in the comments.

Standalone Tweets

@Maura_Aura “Everything that happens is designed to awaken us. Everything.” ~ Leonard Jacobson (via @iamwun )

@NoBullDoogy “The mind is its own place, and in itself can make a Heaven of Hell, a Hell of Heaven.” ~ John Milton

@empowermentguru “We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves.” ~ Buddha

@abandontheherd “You suffer because things are impermanent and you think they are permanent.” ~ Thich Nhat Hanh (via @TheGodLight)

@CarePathways “Reality is more than our five senses, and we need to keep checking and being skeptical of what we think we know in order to truly know.”

@Palidan “Everyone wants to live at the top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.” ~ anonymous (via @zebraspolkadots)

@Gemma_Stone “Our attitudes are the crayons that color our world.” ~ Allen Klein

@GreatestQuotes “It is our choices…that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.” ~ J. K. Rowling

@karenkmmonroy “It’s not about anyone or anything else. It’s all about you — how you show up — or don’t.”

@Tamavista “Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.” ~ T.S. Eliot

@TheGodLight “You cannot truly live unless you embrace the sad and glad times of life. Living is being at one with your internal feelings.”

@karenkmmonroy “Declaring ‘good and bad’ is just a form of resistance to life…it already is, unhook, step to the outcome you desire.”

@Maura_Aura “The scars you acquire by exercising courage will never make you feel inferior.” ~ D.A. Battista

@therapy4help “Savor every moment of life. Be present, take your time, breathe, relax, make a point to move slower and avoid filling your life with busyness.”

@zebraspolkadots “Insight comes from new information that leads us to the awareness that will empower us to create our own change.” ~ House of Zebras

@Maura_Aura “Should somebody else tell you who you are? Don’t worry about what others say. Know who you are.” ~ Swami Satchidananda

@BeautyofWisdom “When you recover or discover something that nourishes your soul and brings joy, care enough about yourself to make room for it in your life.” ~ Jean S Bolen

@karenkmmonroy “When you want what you want it’s hard to trust in the timing of the Universe. Be compassionate to self and trust.”

@Kinderbeten “Being listened to and heard is one of the greatest desires of the human heart.” ~ Richard Carlson
[So … listen to and hear yourself.]

Linked Tweets

@NAMIMass Know the lifeline 1-800-273-8255 or @800273TALK FREE 24/7 when you or someone you know needs help

@DeborahSerani Stalking safety tips

@drcmblake On Finding Your Purpose and Running Down a Dream (Via Tiny Buddha)

@PromisePlace Impact of Trauma
[SEO: Focus is on “zero to three” years of age group witnessing violence; impacts and some resources.]

@mental_news Our Brains Distort Our Own Body Image
[SEO: Fascinating. In a research experiment, healthy people’s brains distorted their perceived size of their hand to be both wider and shorter than reality, even though they could recognize a picture of their actual hand. Implications for disorders that deal with body image/ distortions.]

@PromisePlace Survivors Healing Center · The Issue
[SEO: “The issue” specific to survivors of child sexual abuse; what it is; long term impacts and description of various psychological disorders which may occur; and steps one can take when first dealing with all of this. Good primer to offer to anyone new to these issues.]

@karenkmmonroy Letting your dreams find you
[SEO: The relative dream vs the soul dream. Thought provoking read!]

@endstigma “Great article about mens’ experience with depression.” (via @CreativeFusion @MadPsych)

@pinwheelgirl Do you feel good when good things happen? Or do you try to find something wrong with them?

@zebraspolkadots Claiming A New Paradigm…For Myself
[SEO: Does your focus on “illness” deny you the feeling of “wellness”? Changing that mindset can be empowering.]

@SoulHealr What’s the difference between mindfulness and relaxation?

@psychcentral “Feeling stressed? Read The Power of Acceptance.”

@MyAnxietyCure Six Practical Ways of Coping With Panic Attacks

@HealMyPTSD New discussion posted — PTSD triggers: Coping with PTSD
[SEO: “Heal My PTSD — A Self-Empowered Healing Discussion Board”]

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Favorite TweetStuff (week ending 06/18/10)

Twitter’s ups and downs this week are driving me to Distraction. Good thing there are so many things to do once I get there. :) Here are my favorite things scooped up from my TweetStream, at least when I could access it! Enjoy!

@SphynxAll “Cat Philosophy — Life is hard, and then you nap.”

@SarahEOlson2009 “Speaking of cats…my latest UStream obsession: webcam on an Ohio rescue cat site with far too many free range kittens/cats to accurately count. (I’ve tried! It’s a good way to spend lots of Twitter down time.)”

@Alyssa_Milano Anti BP Art: The best visual jabs to come from the oil disaster (via @teeco71) (via @Sanlin)

@BeyondMeds The lady (and the dog) sing the blues

@LoriThrives “I recognize balance every time I swing past.”

@petapixel World Cup stadium spectacular
[SEO: Not a soccer fan, but the architecture here is stunning.]

@WritersQuotes “Reading gives us someplace to go when we have to stay where we are.” ~ Mason Cooley

@aimeepilz “Please give me some good advice in your next letter. I promise not to follow it.” ~ Edna St. Vincent Millay

@petapixel The Simpsons do iconic photos
[SEO: Doh!]

@ElyssaD “The same thing happens to me! I sit in a corner hiding my face in my knees shaking when I’m unable to tweet! LMAO!” #tweehab (via @ykv)
[SEO: Love that #tweehab hashtag!]

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