Three New Blogs Added to Dissociation Blog Showcase! (DBS)

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We have amazing writers amongst us who give insight and hope to anyone struggling with dissociation, or to their loved ones. It’s a brain trust, and I treasure it. When I find new blogs, I update the Dissociation Blog Showcase (DBS) on Sunday evenings. Tonight I’ve added the following three new blogs:

A GIRL’S RUMINATIONS

Ann’s Multiple World of Personality

UnInvisible girl

Please use the DBS link above to access these blogs, and check out the entire directory of (currently) 171 dissociation-related blogs!

As always, be careful and safe. Many of these blogs do not provide trigger warnings, nor are they obligated to do so.

I need your help! If you, or someone you know, experiences dissociation and blog about it, write to me with the URL at

sarah.e.olsonATgmailDOTcom

I review each blog before adding it to the Showcase. Thanks so much for the feedback and well-wishes for this project!

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Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors (week ending 09/10/10)

Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

NEW and REALLY COOL: You can now “like” this post, and “share” it everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

Standalone Tweets

@WEPromote “I have one small drop of knowing in my soul. Let it dissolve in your ocean. ~ Rumi

@docmarion “There are many paths to enlightenment. Be sure to take one with a heart. ~ Lao Tzu

@Tamavista “There can be no transforming of darkness into light and of apathy into movement without emotion.” ~ Jung

@CarePathways “So how with all the world throws at us on a daily basis do we find that elusive inner feeling of being at peace? In moments.”

@karenkmmonroy “You can pick a new life without picking a fight with the old life.”

@WEPromote “In the midst of movement and chaos, keep stillness inside of you.” ~ Deepak Chopra

@BeautyofWisdom “The moment in between what you once were, and who you are now becoming, is where the dance of life really takes place.” ~ Barbara de Angelis

@WEPromote “Every choice you make establishes your own identity as you will see it and believe it is.” ~ CIM

@themindfulist “The quality of your life is rarely determined by big dramatic moments. It’s the small daily choices that matter.”

@zebraspolkadots “When things aren’t working, don’t feel right, seem ‘hard’ … it’s not that I”m doing anything wrong but that I need to do something different.”

@CarePathways “It is easier to act your way into a feeling than to feel your way into action.”

@Tamavista “Never ignore a gut feeling, but never believe that it’s enough.” ~ Robert Heller

@thisisMEssy “Anyway, tomorrow is a chance for a fresh perspective. tomorrow is about ME. and letting me be just exactly enough. Not pushing it.”

@GabrielaKortsch “Everyone who will can hear the inner voice. It is within everyone.” ~ Mohandas Gandhi

@BigBookofYou “If you are going to doubt something, doubt your limits.” ~ Don Ward

Linked Tweets

World Suicide Prevention Day (today, September 10, 2010)

@moritherapy A suicide attempt survival story by @unsuicide

World Suicide Prevention Day
[SEO: Wherever you are, in your time zone, light a candle at 8pm near a window to show your support for WSPD.]

The Rest of the Best

@zebraspolkadots After years of therapy I had not gained an understanding that I had the power to change my life. (From the archives.)
[SEO: Never give up.]

@NeuralCorrelate 5 Tips for Dealing with the Sunday Blues (via @kris_burns)
[SEO: “For many people, Sunday can be a rough day. This is especially true if you have been through a loss.”]

@therapynews Untying Knots in the Body to Untie Knots in the Mind and Heart
[SEO: “The first foundation of mindfulness is mindfulness of the body. It is cultivated with ‘body scanning,’ and movement practices like yoga and walking meditation –- anchored in feeling the sensations of breathing.”]

@MarjieKnudsen Where are you on the cynicism meter? (via @ssanquist)
[SEO: “Cynicism is an unproductive reaction to disappointment. It springs from the helplessness people feel when they are disappointed by others and allow themselves to become detached observers rather than active participants.”]

@docmarion 7 Non-Prescription Ways to Increase Attention or Focus
[SEO: “There are various ways to enhance focus in addition to the prescription medications available on the market.” But note, you can try any of these without Rx meds at any time. Be open to it.]

@catatonickid Make Room to Cure Anxiety
[SEO: “What does anxiety management mean to you?”]

@ssanquist Self-Esteem –- Why It Matters (via GoodTherapy.org)
[SEO: “Without a sense of self, it is difficult to be alone, to make decisions, to set boundaries, to identify and accomplish goals, to succeed professionally, and to enjoy healthy, intimate relationships. Poor self-esteem underlies anxiety, depression, addiction, and sexual dysfunction.” Note, this article is addressed to women’s self-esteem issues, but I’m betting men can get something from this discussion as well.]

@NewsForVets Music Therapy Helps Vets Control Symptoms of PTSD
[SEO: Anyone with PTSD may benefit from this. Not just vets.]

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Favorite TweetStuff (week ending 09/10/10)

What a long week! But it’s Friday at last, which means it is time to rescue my favorite things from my Tweet Stream. This week we have an overload of cute and whimsical. Anything that makes me smile right now is in. :) Enjoy!

@Tamavista “If you step on people in this life, you’re going to come back as a cockroach.” ~ Willie Davis

@delightfulmess Baby squirrel adopted by cat learns to purr – science is missing something huge! (via @zebraspolkadots)

@ChocolateStore “Nine out of ten people like chocolate. The tenth person always lies.” ~ John Q. Tullius

@PaulRieckhoff My mind was blown today by the most impressive man-made structure I’ve ever seen: Sagrada Família (in Barcelona, Spain)

@GreatestQuotes “I think of life as a good book. The further you get into it, the more it begins to make sense.” ~ Harold S. Kushner

@2morrowknight 16 Creative Coffee Mugs (via @adamsconsulting @AskAaronLee @nonkanya)

@JohnKremer “To love a person is to learn the song in their heart, and to sing it to them when they have forgotten.” ~ Thomas Chandler

@Tamavista “Believe those who are seeking the truth. Doubt those who find it.” ~ Andre Gide

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Three New Blogs Added to Dissociation Blog Showcase! (DBS)

Special Request: If you find value in this blog showcase, please add the Dissociation Blog Showcase link to your blogroll so others can find it. Thanks!

We have amazing writers amongst us who give insight and hope to anyone struggling with dissociation, or to their loved ones. It’s a brain trust, and I treasure it. When I find new blogs, I update the Dissociation Blog Showcase (DBS) on Sunday evenings. Tonight I’ve added the following three new blogs:

Dissociative Identity Disorder

I Am Mine

Life, Multiplied

Please use the DBS link above to access these blogs, and check out the entire directory of (currently) 168 dissociation-related blogs!

As always, be careful and safe. Many of these blogs do not provide trigger warnings, nor are they obligated to do so.

I need your help! If you, or someone you know, experiences dissociation and blog about it, write to me with the URL at

sarah.e.olsonATgmailDOTcom

I review each blog before adding it to the Showcase. Thanks so much for the feedback and well-wishes for this project!

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Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors (week ending 09/03/10)

Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

NEW and REALLY COOL: You can now “like” this post, and “share” it everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

Standalone Tweets

@InspirationDay “The most practical, beautiful, workable philosophy in the world won’t work — if you won’t.”

@Tamavista “Life has its own hidden forces which you can only discover by living.” ~ Kierkegaard

@Gemma_Stone “Even when you hide your gifts the world aches to experience them.”

@WEPromote “To dream it and not plan it is self-limiting. To plan it and not do it is self-destructive.”

@soulseedz “If you can’t decide what to do, do what makes you feel strong and alive. Do what fills you with joy.”

@Tamavista “The time which we have at our disposal every day is elastic; the passions that we feel expand it.” ~ Proust

@InspirationDay “Truth, and goodness, and beauty are but different faces of the same all.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

@CarePathways “Your life isn’t measured by how you handle burning fires. It’s measured by how you do when there are no fires to extinguish.”

@Tamavista “What you fear this moment is telling you what to do this moment.” ~ Kitamori

@karenkmmonroy “Breathing, breathing, breathing… be with your breath for a minute.”

@lifecruise “The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” ~ Joseph Campbell

@Splinteredones “Learned: just as one can note and let go of thought in meditation one can let emotion pass by. Wow. That never occurred to me.”

@karenkmmonroy “The hamster wheel of the mind will stop spinning around if you stop kicking it.”

@ByronKatie “When we try to be safe, we live our lives being very, very careful; and we wind up having no lives.”

@Gemma_Stone “You have far more stamina, resilience and power than you sometimes know.”

@zebraspolkadots “I came to believe that the dreams, desires and hopes that I’d held within myself silently all those years were actually possible to attain.”

@pinwheelgirl “Be who you must.”

Linked Tweets

National Suicide Prevention Week

@afspnational “Sunday (Sept 5) is the start of National Suicide Prevention Week, and World Suicide Prevention Day is Friday (Sept. 10th). Mark your calendars.”
[SEO: See Take 5 to Save Lives: “By taking 5 minutes to get involved and become informed, you will be part of a national movement to save lives.”]

@HealingToolKit Suicide Warning Signs and important for everyone to know: Don’t Avoid the Issue 1-800-273-TALK (8255)

@unsuicide Great forum for suicidal crisis support (www.suicideforum.com)

@CounterSuicide Dangerous connection
[SEO: This is beyond exponentially repulsive. Transcript of NBC Dateline program regarding a man who pretended to be a young female American nurse online, and sought out suicidal people to both urge them to do it on web cam in front of him, and offered detailed instructions on how to do it. He always claimed he was also suicidal and would kill himself “right after you do”. A heroic woman in UK devoted 3+ years trying to get any UK or USA authority to do something about him. Meanwhile, several people directly linked to this man died. BEWARE the online predator who gets off on your pain and suicide.]

The Rest of the Best

@psychcentral Why You May Need to Leave the Mind Behind for Real Change (via @kris_burns)
[SEO: “The truth is, real transformation and change takes a kind of discipline and can be hard work. The mind wants to rebel against this and tell us it’s not true.”]

@goodthingZ One Simple Stressbuster
[SEO: Hint: It’s not exactly about taking a deep breath.]

@zebraspolkadots I developed ways to avoid facing the feelings that went along with the memories. (April 2009 archives)
[SEO: Does this sound familiar? “In my journey I have found that many of the symptoms of PTSD have to do with avoidance. I would attempt to block out any type of stimulation that might trigger the intrusive memories and flashbacks of the life events that were too overwhelming for my mind to cope with.”]

@kris_burns The Quick Guide To Mindfulness
[SEO: Five steps to achieve mindfulness. Sounds easy, but requires a lot of practice!]

@HealingPTSD Depression: Is Critical Thinking Part of the Cure?
[SEO: Discusses the ways our thinking aids and abets depression: all or nothing thinking; disqualifying the positive; emotional reasoning; should statements.]

@psychcentral Creative Mind: Niki de Saint Phalle: Using Art to Express Rage
[SEO: “One consequence of [child sexual] abuse may be deep rage, and art can help deal with that anger and spiritual wounding constructively.” See also the next article below, Expressive Arts Carnival.]

@DrKathleenYoung Have you checked out the Expressive Arts Carnival?
[SEO: This month’s theme: “choose two (and only two) colors and make a painting that represents where you have been mentally for the past week or so.”]

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Favorite TweetStuff (week ending 09/03/10)

Every Friday I dip into my Tweet stream and ladle out tweetie goodness that strikes me as funny, ironic, beautiful, and inspiring. Maybe not all at once. :) Enjoy!

P.S. Did you know you can now “like” and “tweet” and “share” this at the end of the post? That’s so cool! (Thanks, WP!) So please, do all that verby stuff, and thanks!

@ManyKindRegards “So far hurricane Earl has just been a major pain in the arse, throwing his weight around and blowin’ a lot of hot air. Men. *eyeroll*”

@jonahhphoto Spellbinding Pictures by Dare Turnsek (1x.com)(via @BeyondMeds @magicplum)
[SEO: “In Pursuit of the Sublime” — no kidding!]

@Splinteredones “‘Cone of Uncertainty’ is my new favorite phrase. Perfect self-description. HAH!”

@petapixel Shoot fireworks out of focus for beautiful bokeh explosions

@Gemma_Stone “The meaning of life is to find your gift… The purpose of life is to give it away. ~ Joy J. Golliver

@pourmecoffee Earth Observatory picture of Earl is very cool
[SEO: Earl as seen from the International Space Station.]

@Absinthe_Fairie “When I see people I wanna avoid, I stand very still and pretend I’m a chameleon. Totally works. Even if you don’t change color, you’ll creep ‘em out.”

@WEPromote “Pure music is as big as space. It is the secret of allowing the sound of the universe to flow through you.” ~ Amma

@petapixel Now THIS is a lightning photograph

@Bodewadmi “Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen.” ~ Winston Churchill (via @magicplum)

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