Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (06/03/11)

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

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Purple Flowers; Best Tweets 060311

Photo Credit: My sweet hubby!

@DrMelanieG “To be interested in the changing seasons
is a happier state of mind than to be
hopelessly in love with spring.” ~ George Santayana

 

Six Standalone Tweets to Ponder

@Tamavista “Your work is to discover your world and then with all your heart give yourself to it.” ~ Buddha

@zebraspolkadots “When I feed my passion instead of fueling my pain is when I begin to live in my purpose.” ~ zebdot

@CecilyMacArthur “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” ~ Carl Gustav Jung

@DanielKFoisy “Consciousness is such a mutation, it brings so much light into your being that darkness simply disappears.” ~ Osho

@karenkmmonroy “Reflection is spirit’s way of non-judgmental evaluation. It’s easy for the ego to turn reflection into deception with judgment. just say no.”

@LillyAnn “Be still, and sit within your heart. Courage will erase fear. Love will replace rage. The truth will come.”

 

Linked Tweets

@NAMIMass American Red Cross App Puts Emergency Care Instruction In The Palm Of Your Hand!
[SEO: We seem to be reeling from one disaster to the next, worldwide. If you could have free, potentially life-saving information on your phone, why wouldn’t you? “The ‘S.O.S by the American Red Cross’ app is a free app that provides real-time emergency care instructions and an expansive resource guide for emergency care information in order to help save lives. The app is available only for Android mobile devices.”]

@SarahEOlson2009 Blog Carnival Against Child Abuse: May theme: Self Care (via Kate1975’s Blog)
[SEO: Lots of great contributions on the theme of Self Care, as well as the usual categories: Advocacy and Awareness; Healing and Therapy; Art Therapy; Poetry; and Survivor Stories.]

@GlynisSherwood Dealing with Grief and Loss on Memorial Day? Break through the Myths of Grief Recovery (via @DrKathleenYoung)
[SEO: This links to an index of recent posts on the Recovery Matters Blog, which detail the myths of grief recovery. The most recent post is Myth of Grief Recovery #6 – Be Strong For Others. People working on trauma healing have much to grieve, but are often conditioned, in some cases since early childhood, to put others’ needs ahead of their own; to be strong for others, even when it seems no one is being strong for them. This post discusses why that does a disservice to all involved. Be sure to check the preceding five posts with Myths of Grief Recovery #1-5.]

@micheletrauma Your Life After Trauma — How to beat depression
[SEO: Archive of “Your Life After Trauma” radio broadcasts, which you can listen to online at any time. Topics listed for May 2011: “How to Beat Depression” with guests Cliff Richey and Denita Stevens; “What is PTSD and Can it Be Overcome?” with guests Dr. Laurence Miller and Sgt. Leo Dunson; and “How Trauma Affects the Brain” with guests Dr. Rachel Yehuda and Dr. Dave Ziegler. This is just one small part of the resources offered on Michele Rosenthal’s excellent website, Heal My PTSD.

@psychcentral Healing and positivity can be as simple and uncomplicated as putting pen to paper. The benefits of writing therapy.
[SEO: “Writing therapy has been utilized and shown effective to help people process and regulate emotions, particularly for dealing with past trauma.” While I think any form of writing can be therapeutic and beneficial, the linked article isn’t really about dealing with past trauma. It’s more about when you’re past dealing with trauma you can use “positive writing” to clarify goals and solutions to problems. That’s certainly worth a read.

But for trauma survivors still dealing with those trauma issues, see also Therapy Tools: The Therapy Journal, an article linked in the above post which I didn’t catch when first published. Lots of great tips on using a therapy journal!]

@SarahEOlson2009 5 Ways to Silence Your Inner Critic
[SEO: An insightful look at how self-criticism partners with depression and/or anxiety, and steps to take “…that can help us quiet our inner critic so that we believe only half of what he/she says.”]

@HopeLCSW 4 Must-Do Mindfulness Exercises To Boost Your Body Image and Life
[SEO: “…Jan Chozen Bays, M.D., writes ‘Just as an untamed elephant can do damage, trampling crops and injuring people, so the untamed, capricious mind can cause harm to us and those around us.'” The focus is body image negativity, but it’s a great post for anyone who feels trapped in negativity and self-criticism, generally. Discusses mindfulness as a full-time life skill (as opposed to a set 30 minute routine), and offers four exercises to try it out in that context.]

@psychcentral Positive Psych: How to Experience Rest, Renewal, and Restoration
[SEO: “We are human beings not human doings, and finding balance between work, rest, and play can help us have better physical and emotional health, and find greater life-fulfillment.” Post provides a familiar list of how to find that balance. I can never have too many reminders on balance.]

@MentalHelpNet Feeling Overwhelmed? Take a Break
[SEO: “…sometimes the overwhelm is too great and in my mind, the underpinnings of mindfulness is to figure out what the most skillful action is to take. Perhaps ‘being with’ the overwhelm isn’t what is best in that moment for your stress reduction and well-being, and instead we need to ‘take a break’ from it in order to help stop the spiral.”]

 

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Favorite TweetStuff (06/03/11) ~ Enjoy!

Every week I gather items from my Tweet stream that are funny, weird, beautiful, and/or inspiring. It’s a little mental health break when the world is a bit too stressful. There’s something here for everyone! Enjoy!

@EYSoul “If we could sell our experiences for what they cost us, we’d all be millionaires.” ~ Abigail Van Buren

@SarahEOlson2009 Bunny Jumping Show
[SEO: Bunnies doing show jumps like horses do. :D]

 

@elJetSet Mind-Blowing Aerial Photography Around World
[SEO: A lot of these are so foreign, as to look almost alien. Truly a different perspective! And most are just gorgeous.]

@GreatestQuotes “It is wise to keep in mind that neither success nor failure is ever final.” ~ Roger Babson

@heykim 20 Things You Never Knew Were Named After People (via @AlexMLeo)
[SEO: Who knew there was a Mr. Comma? Or a Mr. Syphilis? Or the origin of the word ‘algorithm’? (No, it wasn’t from Al Gore. ;)]

@thequotemaster “Be bold. When you embark for strange places, don’t leave any of yourself safely on shore.” ~ Alan Alda

@docmarion “I love deadlines. I like the whooshing sound they make as they fly by.” ~ Douglas Adams

@AmazingPics Amazing Spiral Effects
[SEO: Some of these look like true optical illusions, some are actually functional stairs. All very beautiful!]

@Alyssa_Milano “With the news about cell phones possibly causing cancer, I’m grateful that I use an AT&T iPhone and never have reception. Thanks, Steve!”

@pourmecoffee Penguins!
[SEO: It’s like pointilism with penguins!]

@AlwaysWellWithn “The difference between what we do and what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world’s problem.” ~ Gandhi

 

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New Blog Added to Dissociation Blog Showcase (DBS)

Special Request: If you find value in this blog showcase, please add the Dissociation Blog Showcase link to your blogroll so others can find it. Thanks!

We have amazing writers amongst us who give insight and hope to anyone struggling with dissociation, or to their loved ones. It’s a brain trust, and I treasure it. When I find new blogs, I usually update the Dissociation Blog Showcase (DBS) on Sunday evenings. Tonight, I have added the following new blog:

I AM MY IDENTITY

Please use the DBS link above to access this blog, and check out the entire directory of (approximately) ~180 dissociation-related blogs! As always, be careful and stay safe. Many of these blogs do not provide trigger warnings, nor are they obligated to do so.

Still on the way: I’ve received requests for inclusion of some DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder) information and awareness sites, which are not “blogs” per se. I’m still planning to add a new section for these types of sites to the index, so please let me know if you have any favorites. (The two sites currently in the queue are DID World Map and DIDiva.com.) Thanks!

If you, or someone you know, experiences dissociation and blog about it, write to me with the URL at sarah.e.olsonATgmailDOTcom . I review each blog before adding it to the Showcase.

Thanks so much for the feedback and well-wishes for this project!

 

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Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (05/27/11)

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

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Six Standalone Tweets to Ponder

@LLProject “Meditation practice isn’t about trying to throw ourselves away and become something better, it’s about befriending who we are.” ~ Pema Chodron

@jennwatts “Just the act of listening can be calming. If you stop what you’re doing right now, what are 5 things you can hear?”

@visityourself “The longing to feel self-compassion during difficult times points to some part of you that already cares.”

@kathiekeeler “The people who are the hardest to love are the ones who need it the most.” ~ Peaceful Warrior

@karenkmmonroy “Try to remember you always have faith. Faith in the problem, or faith in the Solution….”

@Tamavista “Instead of searching for the meaning of life, make your life meaningful.” ~ Kitamori

 

Linked Tweets

In the News

 

@NAMIMass What are you doing Memorial Day Weekend to remember those that died in service to our country?
[SEO: On Memorial Day, I not only think of all who died, but of all those who came home still fighting battles within themselves every single day. I think Memorial Day must be very tough for them. Please take a moment this weekend to thank a vet for their service.]

@LillyAnn Joplin tornado: How you can help (@RedCross and state agencies)
[SEO: The devastation is just … stunning. We seem to be getting a new disaster every week, and it can be tempting to shut it all out in a bit of ‘disaster fatigue’. Perhaps take a breather to regroup. But people dealing with these traumatic events will need help for a very long time. What would you wish for, if calamity knocked on your community’s door?]

@samhsagov Managing Your Stress:Tips for Survivors of a Traumatic Event
[SEO: At this link you can immediately download the .PDF, or order up to 10 printed copies for free (shipping may apply). “Gives stress prevention and management tips for dealing with the effects of trauma, mass violence, or terrorism. Lists tips to relieve stress, describes how to know when to seek professional help, and provides accompanying resources.”]

@WomeninCrimeInk Elizabeth Smart Confronts Kidnapper
[SEO: She is a poised, confident young woman now. And she made sure her kidnapper, Brian David Mitchell, knew she was flourishing before he was given a life sentence. Beyond finishing college and a two year mission in France for her church, she’s paying it forward. “She works as an advocate for children and victims of crime, especially kidnapping. And she has started the Elizabeth Smart Foundation with her first goal to get a program called RADkids into public schools. RAD, which stands for ‘Resist Aggression Defensively,’ teaches children specific techniques to get away from would-be attackers.”]

 

The Rest of the Best

 

@nourishthesoul May is PTSD Awareness Month. What is trauma?
[SEO: “…[I]t’s not usually very useful for medical professionals to ask patients, ‘Have you experienced trauma?’ Usually, patients will deny trauma because they haven’t been a victim of obvious physical abuse, natural disaster, or combat. But when I ask my own patients whether they’ve ever felt extremely unsafe, felt violated, or been made to feel overwhelmed and powerless, the answers often change.” A good overview of what trauma is, how it impacts us, and what you can do to learn to cope with it and find treatment.]

@psychcentral What Depression Looks Like in Men
[SEO: “A mix of biological and cultural factors often conspire to keep men and those who love them from recognizing and addressing their depression.” An important post that discusses how men differ from women in how they deal with depression and cope with it; how they have different symptom patterns; and differences in how they handle feelings. Most importantly, it explains why depression is often undiagnosed in men, and how that can be deadly dangerous. Don’t ignore it.]

@lifeinthewest How Yoga Can Help Heal PTSD
[SEO: “A traumatic incident may or may not leave physical wounds, but the body takes up the imprint of mind’s emotional distress, and these effects linger. They may manifest in the muscles and bones of the body, as with the rancher, or in our digestive or immune systems. They may settle into our very chemistry, affecting our neurotransmitters. But settle, they will. And until we discharge that trauma — from the mind, yes, but from the body, as well, it will continue to linger, affecting the quality of our lives.” …

“Hatha yoga, the yoga of body and breath, is an invitation to discharge the trauma that resides in our bodies — and to do it in a way that respects our limitations, our needs, and our choices. By providing our muscles and organs and minds with new information — that we””re now safe to grow and change — we can gradually release the lessons of the past that no longer serve us.” A very interesting read!]

@unsuicide Great how-to vid on Progressive Muscle Relaxation, good for stress, insomnia. Free and simple (YouTube)
[SEO: “The second exercise from a full length DVD on anxiety for Dr.Glen Berry, Annapolis Valley Mental Health.” A woman’s voice guides the woman pictured on screen through tension and release exercises, with a handy 5 second countdown while holding the tension positions.]

@psychcentral A reminder about what happens when we stuff down our anger
[SEO: “My expression of anger (or lack thereof) was like my negative body image. How? Because just like I didn’t think that I deserved to feel great in my own skin because I didn’t look a certain way, I didn’t think that I deserved to express my feelings. To be true to myself.” Excellent post! Lots to consider.]

@goodthingz 7 Principles To Help You Change Slowly but Surely (via @mrjWells)
[SEO: “Most of the time, for anything worthwhile, slow progress is what we’ll all be making. We have a myth of overnight success and a habit of instant satisfaction, but one reason so many people never achieve much is that big things take time. …. Most people, when they discover that, give up. How are we going to not be among them?”

While this post is geared toward achieving mostly outward goals, it strikes me how useful it is when considering the course of progress for internal goals. For example, how striving for good mental health might seem to take forever, but look at it in smaller chunks, consider your goals in terms of the seven principles listed herein, and you’ll be able to identify specific areas of progress. A very useful process, especially when feeling down about how slow it seems to move.]

@psychcentral Looking Through the Keyhole of Loss
[SEO: “Whatever your style of coping with loss, it can be important to get to know it better — because it could be an insight into how you are with your life. A doorway into what it means to be you.”]

 

 

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Favorite TweetStuff (05/27/11)

It’s Friday, and a long weekend (Memorial Day on Monday) in the U.S. Have fun, be safe, and if you see a member of our military, past or present, thank them for their service. In the meantime, enjoy the lighter side of things here!

@pourmecoffee Most detailed ever map of the universe lacks only Starbucks locator

@heykim CRAZY! ~ Watching 51 Airplanes Taking Off In Just Two Minutes Is Mesmerizing

@intothemythic “You live and learn. At any rate, you live.” ~ Douglas Adams

@NatGeoSociety Photo of the Day: Aurora Borealis, Iceland (via @Splinteredones)
[SEO: This is just gorgeous.]

@Quotes4Writers “All art consists of surmounting difficulty to produce beauty.” ~ William Allen White

@whuntera “When packing my emotional baggage, I put psychotic on top so it’s readily available.”

@heykim ~ World’s weirdest facial hair
[SEO: … speechless … :D]

@AllGreatQuotes “Only Irish coffee provides in a single glass all four essential food groups: alcohol, caffeine, sugar, and fat.” ~ A Levine

@goodthingz 10 Most Amazing Stained Glass from Around the Globe (the American Flag one is awesome!)

@pourmecoffee “Probably should not have shared my true feelings with so many people before the rapture. Awkward.”

@JoyVBehar “Harold Camping is now saying the Rapture will occur on Oct. 21. Apparently he was able to file for an extension.”

 

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Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (05/20/11)

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

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Six Standalone Tweets to Ponder

@ASimpleTruth “You are born with compassion. You wake to it every day. You just need to cultivate it by your choices to live it.”

@soulseedz “Gratitude takes a heart’s eye view of life; large and generous, pumping perspective through your thoughts and feelings.”

@mylivingpower “Anxiety dissolves in gratitude.”

@Splinteredones “Love challenges, depression fits. They give one the opportunity to overcome. Because it’s all inside. Potential for it all — is inside.”

@Tamavista “I can’t go back to yesterday — because I was a different person then.” ~ Lewis Carroll

@visityourself “Bring to mind someone in your life that’s easy to love. When they think of you, they smile too.”

 

Linked Tweets

 

Mental Health Month Blog Party

 

Last year when I participated in this Blog Party, there were at most 40 participants. This year’s event boasts more than 200 blog posts from all over the web! Well worth checking them out. Below are just a few of them.

@PsychBrownBag How to choose the right form of psychotherapy
[SEO: A step-by-step discussion of what is “evidence-based” psychotherapy, and how to choose the right form for you. Includes links from previous Psychotherapy Brown Bag’s posts about different aspects of choosing a therapist.]

@Mindful_Living The One Major Lesson I’ve Learned
[SEO: “If there’s one major lesson I’ve learned it’s that we can’t always control what happens to us, but true freedom lies in cultivating the awareness to choose how we want to respond. Mindfulness is key to mental health.”

@psychcentral Maybe you’re afraid/ashamed or just didn’t think to tell. But here’s 10 reasons why you should tell your therapist.
[SEO: “If you are in therapy, and you drink or do drugs (whether or not you are also prescribed medication) please let your therapist know. Here’s [10 reasons] why.”]

@SarahEOlson2009 Mental Health Month Blog Party: Two Kinds Of Stigma
[SEO: Yes, this is my entry. :) I think it’s important to consider the difference between the stigma of mental illness that society places upon us, versus the stigma we place on ourselves. You may not even realize that you’re doing it, and it’s a kind of stigma you can directly control.]

 

The Rest of the Best

 

@drkkolmes Be kind to yourself. Self-compassion may matter more than self-esteem.
[SEO: “‘Self-compassion begins to sound like you are indulging yourself, but we don’t find that. People high in self-compassion tend to have higher standards, work harder and take more personal responsibility for their actions,’ Leary said. Presumably because they are not afraid of being mentally taken through the ringer, researchers also think self-compassionate people may be more aware of their own faults, have more courage and be more motivated to persevere. Those with self-compassion may even open access to higher levels of creative thinking, suggests one 2010 study in the Creativity Research Journal.”]

@PTSDdotOrg A Dog Named Slugger: How Service Dogs Improve the Lives of Many
[SEO: Along with many other impressive feats by service dogs, “A recent survey showed that 82 percent of patients with PTSD who were assigned a dog had a decrease in symptoms, and 40 percent had a decrease in the medications they had to take.” ~ Dr. Melisa Kaime, director of the Congressionally Directed Medical Research Program (CDMRP)”.]

@NAMIMass Good Perfectionism versus Bad Perfectionism
[SEO: “I think the line that determines ‘bad’ perfectionism from good’ perfectionism is drawn with how well you are able to function despite the loud conversation in your head. If the chatty dialogue is so obnoxious that it’s hard for me to get anything done, then I have myself a case of debilitating OCD. However, if the perfectionism and fear of failure propels me to chart a course for recovery (exercise in the morning, therapy on Thursday, a half-hour meditation every day), or if it pushes me to map out an outline for a work project so that I’m not so stressed when I sit down to tackle the thing … it becomes my ally.”]

@hea1th The importance of deep breathing
[SEO: “Today, in our busy lives, breathing is a way to renovate the balance of our body, nourish our minds, and relate us to our inner source. Deep breathing is used to aid control panic, anxiety attacks, and mental stress. It is been found that there is a relationship between breathing and mental health.”]

@rcinstitute Understanding Why We Keep Secrets
[SEO: “Can you admit how your lies live in you now? Can you dare to make your own connection between your lies and a subtle but disconcerting lack of self-respect? No matter how well the secret is kept, it’s leaking somewhere, somehow, into your life. If you let the ‘real’ you be a liar, then the person you’re showing the world is basically a people-pleaser, quietly stuck, keeping the peace, exactly like I was, slowly becoming more sad and unsettled.”]

@goodthingz 6 Tips for Battling Loneliness
[SEO: “The more I’ve learned about happiness, the more I’ve come to believe that loneliness is a terrible, common, and important obstacle to consider.” Six strategies to deal with loneliness. I especially like the distinction between loneliness and solitude.]

 

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