Favorite TweetStuff (09/02/11) ~ Enjoy! ~

What a week! Every Friday I collect favorites from my Tweet stream. This week, the first section is about Hurricane Irene. While perhaps not technically a “favorite”, Irene impacted millions of people — and still is — and was the impetus for great stories and photos. And then there’s the rest of the stuff. ;) Enjoy!
 

The Week of Irene

@twc_hurricane NASA image of Irene making landfall

@NewsBoston 25 Best Hurricane Irene Images

@NBCNewYork WATCH: Irene Coverage Recap in 3-Minutes (cool vid. thanks for sticking with us through the storm!)
[SEO: From the New York NBC affiliate, so of course it has a New York/New Jersey emphasis, but is a good recap if you’re just now getting your power back. Mine was only out for 8 hours, and I’m grateful!]

@heykim Wow! A dozen wedding guests stranded by flooding, airlifted by helicopter
[SEO: They had their storybook wedding on Saturday at a Vermont Bed and Breakfast located on a farm. On Sunday, it all changed, including half the wedding party stranded on the wrong side of a bridge wash-out; wedding guests hiking in supplies to others stranded; and spending much of the week helping the locals clear roads. Even though it was literally a post-wedding disaster, the tone set by these out-of-towners was positive and “making the best of it”. Includes a raw footage video from the air of damage in Vermont.]

@twc_hurricane Beautiful sunset imagery from NYC this evening post Irene

 

The Rest of the Best

@soulseedz “It may seem random the way people come in and out of your life, but their imprint on you is a gift.”

@heykim OMG! Stunning pic!!! ~ Dramatic moment thunderbolt lights up Eiffel Tower (via @stormchaser4850)

@Quotes4Writers “Writing is an escape from a world that crowds me. I like being alone in a room. It’s almost a form of meditation.” ~ Neil Simon

@joyful76 “We have to distinguish between catastrophes we can repair and those that require us to face a new reality.” ~ Elizabeth Edwards

@goodthingz 28 Unusual & Creative Clocks (check out the turntable clock)
[SEO: Fascinating assortment of clocks, some of which are so abstract I can’t figure out where the time is. ;) The math clock might be good for kids!]

@Quotes4Writers “Truth is stranger than fiction, but it is because fiction is obliged to stick to possibilities; truth isn’t.” ~ Mark Twain

@DrAthenaStaik “I’m not crazy about reality, but it’s still the only place to get a decent meal.” ~ Groucho Marx

@goodthingz See No Evil — The UK’s Largest Street Art Project

@IvankaTrump “It occurred to me that the problem with doing nothing is not knowing when you’re finished.”

 

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Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (08/26/11)

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

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Best Tweets 082611 Water Fountain

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@LillyAnn “There is only the present moment,
all else is distraction.”

 

Six Standalone Tweets to Ponder

@ShareAwakening “There is no more important step you can take than to define your life’s purpose. It develops your sense of belonging to our universe.” ~ Arnold P

@soulseedz “Acceptance does NOT mean being passive or submissive. It’s the choice for peace and non-judgment.”

@karenkmmonroy “Your certainty of what will happen prevents what can happen…”

@zebraspolkadots “Self love is no longer thinking I can ‘work it out’ with those who need me to somehow be wrong so they can be right.”

@StacyIgel “Confidence comes not from always being right, but from not fearing to be wrong.” ~ Unknown

@DrAthenaStaik “The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.” ~ Gloria Steinem

 

Linked Tweets

@NAMIMass The Impact of Partner Anxiety on Your Relationship
[SEO: This post references a 2004 survey by the Anxiety Disorders Association of America (ADAA) that assessed the impact generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) has on relationships, beginning with a list of findings regarding how GAD sufferers feel about themselves and their relationships.

“I think what struck me most about the above findings is the underlying guilt and shame that people with anxiety and panic disorders must feel about the way their illness affects their partners and the relationship as a whole. I often find that clients with anxiety fuel their own problem by blaming themselves for not being able to get past the fear and panic, which adds more stress, and puts them in a never-ending cycle.” Post then offers a list of what you, as the supportive partner, can do to help your partner with GAD. (If you’re the one with GAD give this post to your partner.)]

@psychcentral Before you move forward, you need to say goodbye to the past. Here’s how to let go so you can move on with your life.
[SEO: “Having mined your past for clues as to how you characteristically approach the ending of one thing — your high school days, your first love, that job you hated — you can learn what to anticipate as future transitions approach, and be better prepared to cope. …

“So here is the challenge presented by endings: As you stand on the cusp between this and that, here and there, make a conscious choice about “former me” and “becoming me,” between who you were and who you would like to be. Sure, you might not be able to fully discard all of the aspects of “former me” that you’d like to. And your notions about “becoming me” might be a tad overblown in the final analysis (New Year’s resolutions, anyone?). But it is the process of reflecting that is important. You are equipping yourself with important self-knowledge that is sure to help you through the current transition — and the next, and the next, and the next.”]

@natasha_tracy Myth: Psych Meds Are an Agent of Control
[SEO: “One of the myths about mental illness medication is that it is used to control its taker. In other words, by taking the pills prescribed by a psychiatrist you become a pliable, braindead lemming. So, let’s take a look at my pliable, braindead, lemming life.” … “When successfully medicated, you’re not a zombie, you’re a person. A person who can do whatever they like. They can mess up their life; they can succeed; they move forward; they can jump up and down. What they aren’t is controlled. The unsuccessfully treated illness controls a person far more than the medication ever could.”]

@patriciasinglet Why are We the Ones that Hide the Truth?
[SEO: Examines why abuse survivors are made to bear the brunt of a dysfunctional family’s shame and blame, which encourages deadly silence. “Why are our ‘secrets’ considered embarrassing? Why are we protecting our abusers?” The conversation continues in the comments.]

@NAMIMass How to Fight Mental Illness Stigma
[SEO: Article by Dr. Deborah Serani (@DeborahSerani), discusses origin of the word ‘stigma’, and how it can impact you if you have depression. “There are five levels of stigma that can affect your daily living experiences if you have depression. Stigmatizing beliefs occur on a personal level, in the general public, within professions, via labels and by associative connections.” She goes into each level in some depth.

“As you continue to educate yourself, make the leap to teaching others so that the myths of depression can be addressed. You will be creating a new reality, one that shows how living with depression is not something to be afraid of or shameful about.”]

@SarahEOlson2009 5 Quick Facts about Art Therapy
[SEO: “The very words ‘art therapy’ can sound abstract (no pun intended!), and many people have little understanding about its origins, principles and purpose. That can easily create myriad misconceptions. Here, we lay out five facts about art therapy.”]

 

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Favorite TweetStuff (08/26/11) ~ Enjoy! ~

This is the late edition of Favorite Tweetstuff, brought to you every Friday! Each week I gather up my favorite items from my Twitter stream; maybe funny, or beautiful, or quirky, or inspiring. It’s all good! Enjoy!

 

@Quotes4Writers “Being a writer is like having homework every night for the rest of your life.” ~ Lawrence Kasdan

@OddityCentral The Awe-Inspiring Paper Sculptures of Allen and Patty Eckman
[SEO: Just … wow. These are incredibly complex and intricately detailed, and all appear to be 3D.]

@AnnTran_ “The time to relax is when you don’t have time for it.” ~ Sydney J. Harris

@DavidShuster “Another must-read by @singernews — National Zoo’s animal reactions before/during/after quake. So interesting!”
[SEO: The giant pandas weren’t impressed, but everyone else was!]

@kathiekeeler “Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.” ~ Saint-Exupéry

@goodthingz 13 Incredible Libraries
[SEO: Breathtaking! Not sure I could actually read in these places, I’d be too busy looking around, exploring nooks and crannies!]

@soulseedz “I believe in looking reality straight in the eye and denying it.” ~ Garrison Keillor

@latimes Human-like robot comes alive aboard space station
[SEO: Includes a video of two space station members assembling “R2″. And you can tweet w/him @AstroRobonaut! (I keep wanting to call him Hal. ;)]

@CausesEffects “In a gentle way, you can shake the world.” ~ Gandhi

 

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3 New Blogs Added to Dissociation Blog Showcase! (DBS)

Special Request: If you find value in this blog showcase, please add the Dissociation Blog Showcase link to your blogroll so others can find it. Thanks!

We have amazing writers amongst us who give insight and hope to anyone struggling with dissociation, or to their loved ones. It’s a brain trust, and I treasure it. When I find new blogs, I usually update the Dissociation Blog Showcase (DBS) on Sunday evenings. Tonight I’ve added the following three new blogs:

Just Call Me Frank

Ramblings of a Dissociated Soul

The Crew

Please use the DBS link above to access these blogs, and check out the entire directory of (approximately) 190 dissociation-related blogs! As always, be careful and stay safe. Many of these blogs do not provide trigger warnings, nor are they obligated to do so.

Still on the way: I’ve received requests for inclusion of some DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder) information and awareness sites, which are not “blogs” per se. I’m still planning to add a new section for these types of sites to the index, so please let me know if you have any favorites. (The two sites currently in the queue are DID World Map and DIDiva.com.) Thanks!

If you, or someone you know, experiences dissociation and blog about it, write to me with the URL at sarah.e.olsonATgmailDOTcom . I review each blog before adding it to the Showcase.

Thanks so much for the feedback and well-wishes for this project!

 

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Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (08/19/11)

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

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Best Tweets 081911 Forest Water Reflections

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@healingtrauma “A mind at peace,
a mind centered and not focused on harming others,
is stronger than any physical force
in the universe.” ~ Wayne Dyer

 

Six Standalone Tweets to Ponder

 

@Josh_Bickle “Breathe in the goodness people offer and breathe toward all you can be … inspiration, aspiration, respiration.”

@zebraspolkadots “How are you feeling? what are you focused on? That’s what you’ll get more of. Focus on now to step out of pain of past or fear of future.”

@soulseedz “Be as fully present as you can be, awake to what is forming inside and around you.”

@sanzplans “One of the processes of your life is to constantly break down that inferiority, to constantly reaffirm that I Am Somebody. ~ Alvin Ailey

@reginaldcuffee “When you uncover new dimensions of who you are, you will begin to trust yourself more deeply.”

@embraceselflove “I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi

 

Linked Tweets

 

In the News

 

@psychcentral Announcing the Psych Central Drug Discount Card
[SEO: Psych Central has partnered with Needy Meds to provide a discount drug card, which also can be used for savings on over the counter items. It’s free, it never expires, there are no extraordinary requirements to get it, and Psych Central does not receive any money from your use of the card. I haven’t tried it, but this looks like it could help bridge any gaps in your medicine expenses. Worth a look.]

@AVCupdate Thousands of veterans with PTSD to receive new disability benefits
[SEO: This ruling only applies to 2000 veterans who filed a class action lawsuit to force the government to acknowledge and pay for their PTSD disability status. It’s deplorable that vets had to sue their own government to receive these benefits. But it’s a start.]

About Therapy, Generally

 

@PTSDdotOrg Top 7 Therapy Myths Debunked
[SEO: “An expert psychologist and a psychiatrist explain the top 7 misunderstandings that people have about therapy — with a dose of reality tossed in.” These myths include: My childhood doesn’t matter; All therapists are the same; I don’t need therapy, just drugs; It’s not going to work; It’s too expensive; It’s going to send me over the edge; and I don’t have time.”]

@Good_Therapy Why Do I Have to Talk About My Painful Feelings in Therapy?
[SEO: “Much of how we feel, think and behave in the present relates back to the experiences we have already had. Understanding the pain you carry, and why is an important tool for your therapist to have when working with you. This enables your therapist to change how you feel, by understanding the root cause and then taking proper treatment channels. These most unpleasant moments in therapy are the real work, and facing them is your most rewarding challenge.”]

 

The Rest of the Best

 

@MentalHelpNet What Does a Depression Diagnosis Mean to You?
[SEO: “Diagnosis can be the beginning of your partnership with physicians for the work of recovery, or it can be the beginning of a passive relationship in which you wait for the right treatment to come along. It depends on how you respond and the messages conveyed to you by your PCP or psychiatrist.

Do they encourage you to be part of your healing or do they expect you to leave everything in their hands? Do they help you build confidence in your resilience in the face of illness, or do they encourage you to look primarily outside yourself to the latest in medical treatment?”]

@HealthyPlace Anxiety Wants You in a Box (via @kris_burns)
[SEO: “Anxiety likes to keep us in boxes. Little boxes, with four walls and a steady stream of same, same, similar, same. Don’t stray too far now. Don’t, should, must,… and after a while your mind stops using the windows, let alone the door. One doesn’t think there’s anything wrong with the same, if it feels safe, safer, or like it’s somehow protecting you no matter how unsafe we actually feel, every single day. Up to a point it’s fine. Of course it’s fine. Of course then it’s easy to miss the point that it’s not fine, too.”]

@psychcentral Getting Back On The Wagon: Success, Failure And The Cycle Of Change
[SEO: This post examines the Cycle of Change therapy, in particular, how relapse is an acknowledged part of the cycle, so it ought not to be looked at as failure. (Not just relapse involving substance abuse, but also those efforts to nourish our psyches, honor our creativity, and add enjoyment in life.) Outlines the six components of cycle of change therapy, and describes why, if you relapse, you don’t go back to “zero”, or square one. “Because you’ve already done all of your pre-contemplation and contemplation. And you’ve also probably done most of your planning.”]

@ACCRI 5 Steps for Being Present
[SEO: “The first thing to recognize is that, try as we might, we really can only do one thing at a time, so we ought to do that thing wholeheartedly. Most of our time is spent in the past or the future, rather than the present moment. What we end up doing is passing through that moment on the way to somewhere else and, in doing so, we miss the moment. That’s how life ends up passing us by – we do it to ourselves.” The five steps discussed are simple but not easy. Practice.]

@thereseborchard A guide for dealing with those that don’t get or try to get mental illness, a.k.a. idiots
[SEO: Whether they are close relatives or a jerk sitting next to you on a bus, we’ve all dealt with people full of judgments and proclamations about mental illness. While Therese writes somewhat tongue in cheek here, the advice offered is sound.]

@goodthingz Next time you feel stuck, ask yourself the following question (via @amandalinehan)
[SEO: The question is: “What can I do? This is opposed to thinking about all of the things you can’t do or don’t have control over in any given situation. … When you ask what you can do you stop trying to control the world around you, and you simply focus on yourself.”]

@SarahEOlson2009 How to Keep Going When Mental Illness Treatment Doesn’t Work
[SEO: “Everyone who has been bipolar, or mentally ill in general, for longer than about a day-and-a-half has experienced failed treatments. We’ve all had medications that didn’t work. Therapy that didn’t help. Lifestyle changes that did nothing. And so on, and so forth. In fact, most of us experience months of treatment failure before we find treatment that works for our mental illness.”

I know it’s so tempting to throw in the towel after trying — sometimes for years — to find something that works. But that isn’t the time to give up. “Every treatment is a question mark and the only way to know whether you’ll get better or not is to try. I don’t regret trying. Because even failure is information to use moving forward.”]

 

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Favorite TweetStuff (08/19/11) ~ Enjoy! ~

Every Friday I pick my favorite tweets that passed through my tweet stream and compile them here. They can be inspiring, funny, quirky, or simply beautiful. Enjoy!

 

@SashaKane “From someone who was taken up — Kept warm and safe under the Wings of Twitter peeps. ONE Person, ONE word, ONE Tweet can change a life.”

@AmazingPics Morning Meteors by Michael Menefee
[SEO: A composite of 444 shots taken of last weekend’s meteor showers, 30 of which captured meteors. Spectacular!]

@zebraspolkadots “Pssst…that voice that keeps telling you how worthless you are? It’s lying.” :)

@pourmecoffee No big deal, this NASA picture posted today is just of two galaxies colliding

@OurTownMagazine “Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, only with what you are expecting to give, which is everything.” ~ Katharine Hepburn

@BlondeTXGoddess 12 Bird Nests In Unusual Places: Get Inspired By Nature (via @adamsconsulting)
[SEO: All very cute, but the one with (what I think are) herons perched in an over-sized nest on top of a telephone pole? That’s extreme bird nesting!]

@ShareAwakening “The more REAL you are, the more UNREAL your life will become.” ♥ John Lennon

@latimes Prehistoric flying creature lands on Cardiff surfer statue

@soulseedz “Expectations are resentments under construction.” ~ A Lamott

@DavidBTwit The Incredible Flower and Sand Carpets of La Otorava
[SEO: Simply gorgeous artwork.]

@Quotes4Writers “A writer takes earnest measures to secure his solitude and then finds endless ways to squander it.” ~ Don DeLillo

@GerryWiederRN “As if you could kill time without injuring eternity.” ~ Thoreau

 

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