Favorite TweetStuff (04/20/12) ~ Enjoy! ~

Every Friday I gather favorite items from my Tweet stream which are cool, inspiring, beautiful, and sometimes weird. Today I detect a bit of a cat theme, but there’s more than that here! Enjoy!

 

‏@SarahEOlson2009 “Best Tweets may be a bit late tonight. Fenway Park is only 100 years old once! Every former player is coming out on the field now. @RedSox” :D

@healthyplace “It takes a great deal of courage to stand up to your enemies, but even more to stand up to your friends.” ~ J. K. Rowling

@ashwinsanghi Space Shuttle Discovery Flies for the Last Time
[SEO: Discovery flew piggy-back on its custom 747 for the last time, making several low altitude circles around Washington DC, which resulted in dozens of cool pictures being snapped and posted to Twitter as it happened. Mashable collected the best ones here.]

@YogaArmy “Creativity is allowing yourself to make mistakes. Art is knowing which ones to keep.” ~ Scott Adams

‏@nurse_w_glasses AMAZING landscapes made out of vegetables, created by Carl Warner
[SEO: This is the best use of broccoli I’ve ever seen. As opposed to having to eat it.]

@Tamavista “Your conscience is your compass; your reason is your map.” ~ Kitamori

@mjdub Spring Trends, As Worn By A Cat
[SEO: Sometimes I just need to see weird cat stuff. :)]

@AncientProverbs “If you shoot for the stars and hit the moon, it’s okay. But you’ve got to shoot for something. A lot of people don’t even shoot.” ~ Confucius

@DavidShuster Thank God for Cory Booker, mayor of Newark NJ, who tonight risked his own life and saved another
[SEO: Over the years, there have been many accounts of how very hands on Cory Booker is as mayor of Newark, New Jersey. He shows up to help, not to give speeches or create photo-ops. So it’s not surprising — but still very refreshing — that he ran into his neighbor’s burning house several times, saved at least one life, and ended up with smoke inhalation and burns on his hands. A true hero!]

@Splinteredones HAH! Cat Alarm Clock (Youtube)
[SEO: You have to admire the ingenuity and tenacity of this cat!]

 

@LillyAnn “The first step to expanding your reality is to discard the tendency to exclude things from possibility.” ~ e.e. Cummings

@SarahEOlson2009 21 Cats Imitating Art
[SEO: Cats and art, two of my favorite things! :)]

@natasha_tracy “The job of the artist is always to deepen the mystery.” ~ Francis Bacon

 
 
 

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Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (04/13/12)

This week’s focus: music as therapy, and good to know info

I am honored to have my Twitter feed included in this list of 50 Best Twitter Feeds for Psychology Majors! Go check out the other 49, broken out into these categories: News; Organizations; Patients; and Professionals.

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

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@Tamavista “It is not enough
to be compassionate.
You must act also.” ~ Tao

 
 

‏Some Tweets to Ponder

 

@DennyCoates “Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least.” ~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

@Tamavista “To make dreams real, you must wake up sometimes.” ~ Kitamori

@visityourself “Have you shut yourself out of your own heart? Would you exile a friend for the same ‘crime’?”

@LillyAnn “Maybe the key to happiness is to focus less on making moments last and more on making them count.” ~ @lori_deschene

@healthyplace “In the book of life, the answers aren’t in the back.” ~ Charlie Brown

 

Linked Tweets

 

The Role of Music in Healing

 

‏@KimbersP Music And Health: 11 Ways Playing And Listening To Music Help Both Body and Mind (via Huffington Post)
[SEO: A slideshow with each page discussing how music impacts people in various beneficial ways. Excellent!]

@mjdub Canon in D (flute and piano) (youtube)
[SEO: As a personal example of music’s benefits, 20 years ago when I was in some very dark places, I listened to Pachelbel’s Canon in D in a continuous loop, especially late at night. It was evidence of beauty in a world which was exceedingly ugly at that time. It was the only thing that helped me fall asleep, and saved my sanity. I found this version in my tweet stream last night… just closed my eyes, relaxing, stress falling away from me. The music is so calming, affirming, peaceful, and truly exquisite in places.

All this to say, if you don’t have some music in your life that inspires similar responses in you, look for it. Use it for whatever benefits you can derive from it.]

 

Below is my favorite full orchestral version of Canon in D by the Boston Pops, with John Williams conducting. Just gorgeous. (youtube)

 

Good to Know

 

‏@healthyplace Antipsychotic Drugs, Metabolic Syndrome and Diabetes
[SEO: A good primer in the risks inherent in atypical antipsychotic meds, and their very real risk of causing weight gain leading to diabetes. If you continue on to the second page link, it lists the current atypical antipsychotics, and the risks attached to each of them. Be an informed patient, and your own best advocate.]

@800273TALK If mental illness is keeping you from holding down a job, this article will help you take control of your money
[SEO: For people in the USA, this post describes what Social Security Disability Insurance is about, for whom, and how to apply for it. “When mental illness SSDI claims are awarded, it’s because the claimant has a strong support network, a solid case supported by their doctors and extensive medical documentation, and a healthy dose of perseverance.” Most people are denied in their first attempt to claim benefits. Don’t give up, and get some expert help if at all possible.]

 

The Rest of the Best

 

@patriciasinglet It’s been exactly 4 years since i tried to die
[SEO: A very open, achingly honest recounting by Fragmentz, of her suicide attempt and the long road back to today, which isn’t perfect, but is hopeful for the future.]

@800273TALK Got 5 minutes? That’s all the time you need to relax your body, soothe anxiety and cope with stressful thoughts.
[SEO: “No matter how busy you are, you can find five minutes or fewer in your day to take better care of yourself.” These five things include (with more detailed explanations): practice 3-3-6 breathing; give yourself some PEACE (acronym for steps); use distraction; give your partner a long hug; and meditate.]

@ssanquist Ten Steps of Acceptance — When Forgiving Is Not the Best Option
[SEO: We get lots of talk about how forgiveness is necessary to move on, to heal, to let go. This post is based on a book by Dr. Janis A. Spring, How Can I Forgive You? The Courage to Forgive, The Freedom Not To (Amazon link), which I’ve not read but plan to.

“Drawing from her clinical work with couples dealing with infidelity, she notes there are at least ten interconnected steps for the betrayed person to take in self-directing their healing. These steps can also be universally applied to traumatic experiences and situations other than infidelity.” In this post, each step includes links for further study. What I’m getting as key here is “Genuine forgiveness must be earned by the other party.” If you struggle with forgiveness, as I do, this post will give you much to consider.]

@PsychCentral My Story: Old Song, New Hope
[SEO: “I still have a terrible time believing I’m worth liking, or loving, or whatever. I spend a lot of time apologizing to people for being a pain in the butt, because that’s what I’m pretty sure I am, most of the time. It took a long time to get this way and it’s taken me a long time to even start to overcome.”

“I’m fortunate now to have people who believe in me and who haven’t run away, no matter how hard I’ve tried to push them to go. Yet it’s hard for me to let them freely offer to me their love and caring — honestly, it scares me. Even if they’ve given me no reason, ever, to think they’d abandon me, I’d rather keep my distance than risk being hurt again.” …

The hope resides in her willingness to pay it forward, to talk publicly about her struggles: “[T]he more people who are willing to say so, the more people who are needlessly suffering silently might come forward and ask for help, instead of feeling shamed, or bullied, or like nobody gets it.”]

 
 
 

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Favorite TweetStuff (04/13/12) ~ Enjoy! ~

It’s Friday! It’s opening day at Fenway, and the Red Sox found some offense! Yay! But I digress. Every week I gather favorite items from my Tweet stream which are funny, whimsical, beautiful, or strange. Enjoy!

 

@pourmecoffee “If a robot from the future is not already on its way back to stop Zuckerberg from founding Facebook, it may be too late.”

‏@AmazingPics Unbelievable Photos of Earth from Space
[SEO: All pics taken by astronaut Andre Kuipers aboard the International Space Station. My faves are those of the Northern Lights bending with the earth’s curvature, a shooting star passing the ISS, and a bizarre perspective of the moon as a dot at the southern end of the globe.]

@MySahana “The right to do something does not mean that doing it is right.” ~ William Safire

‏@Alyssa_Milano Watch Jim Henson’s awesomely insane pitch to get The Muppet Show on the air
[SEO: Great stuff! Hard to imagine the backdrop of my life without a Muppet in it somewhere.]

@pourmecoffee “Life is giving me pollen, but I’m not going to make pollenade. I don’t even think that’s a thing.”

‏@ashwinsanghi The Exhibition of Masterpieces in the Museum of Sand — Tottori Sand Dune
[SEO: Truly amazingly detailed and life-like sand sculptures.]

@Quotes4Writers “Writing is my vacation from living.” ~ Eugene O’Neill

@TreeHugger Sorry to ruin your productivity, but here’s a LIVE HUMMINGBIRD CAM! With hummingbird chicks!
[SEO: Story plus embedded link to the live UStream cam with a tight shot on the nest. They are so tiny!]

@Zen_Moments “Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one.” ~ Albert Einstein

 
 
 

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Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (04/06/12)

This week’s focus: mental health in the news

I am honored to have my Twitter feed included in this list of 50 Best Twitter Feeds for Psychology Majors! Go check out the other 49, broken out into these categories: News; Organizations; Patients; and Professionals.

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please Share My Stuff! You can now “like” and “share” this post everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

 
 
 

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@LillyAnn “Springtime is at hand.
When will you ever bloom,
if not here and now?” ~ Angelus Silesius

 

Some Tweets to Ponder

 

@healthyplace “Nobody realizes that some people expend tremendous energy merely to be normal.” ~ Albert Camus

‏@zebraspolkadots “Boundaries are not about what I will ‘let’ others do or not do but about what I will stick around for. #lifelesson”

@AncientProverbs “The greatest way to live with honor in this world is to be what we pretend to be.” ~ Socrates

@WisdomalaCarte “The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.” ~ Alice Walker

@AnnTran_ “The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.” ~ Zen Saying

 

Linked Tweets

 

In the News

 

@PsychCentral Bring Your Child to See ‘Bully’ Despite the R Rating
[SEO: “Watching the film is a teachable moment for you and your child. As parents, you can help your child develop a sense of integrity that no one should be treated poorly and feel unsafe. Additionally, you are letting your child know that you do take this matter seriously and they should not be afraid to tell you should this happen. The shame felt by victims and bystanders all too often helps perpetuate the bullying cycle.”]

@PsychCentral Lifetime Traumatic Stress Linked to Heightened Inflammation
[SEO: “‘Not everyone who is exposed to trauma develops PTSD,’ said Cohen, who also is an assistant professor of medicine at UCSF. ‘This study emphasizes that traumatic stress can have a long-term negative impact on your health even if you don’t go on to develop PTSD. … What we think is happening is that people with a history of multiple traumatic stress exposures have increased inflammatory response more often and for longer periods, and so inflammation becomes chronically high. … ‘”

Other recent studies have indicated a correlation between heightened inflammation and heart disease, diabetes, and immune system disorders. For me, and a lot of child abuse survivors, this is science catching up to what we’ve long intuitively known: that traumatic stress transfers to the body in insidious ways.]

 

For Veterans and Military Families

 

@IAVAPressRoom Honoring a Service Member’s Ultimate Sacrifice, Whether It Was Made on the Battlefield or Not (via @nytimes)
[SEO: “Far too often, we at the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS), hear similar stories from military families who have suffered the loss of a loved one who died while serving in the armed forces and then are denied ‘gold star’ status because their loved ones did not die in a combat zone or were not killed in action.” …

“While we were heartened to see the White House expand the policy in 2011 to send presidential condolence letters to the families of those who die by suicide while stationed in combat zones, the policy continues to exclude the two-thirds of families whose military loved ones die by suicide in other locations.”

@WarriorCare Read about what the Red Sox are doing for wounded warriors
[SEO: The Red Sox Foundation paired with Mass. General Hospital to form the Home Base program for vets and their families. Describes local (to Boston area) programs, and includes PTSD and TBI resources for veterans, clinicians, and the general public.]

@PsychCentral Facebook For Veterans With PTSD
[SEO: “A neuro-scientist who’s done research for the Pentagon, Paul MacDonald, PhD, has created an online center on Facebook for veterans [at Veteran Central, many of whom need some kind of assistance reintegrating back into daily life after their tours of duty. The site is also an excellent resource for veterans struggling with post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), traumatic brain injury (TBI), and other mental issues.”

“In addition to information about job postings, scholarships, and programs of all kinds, Veteran Central offers comprehensive forums, podcasts, videos, and articles—most of which are created by veterans themselves. Although the site is geared towards all veterans, there are plenty of resources for those with PTSD and TBI….”]

 

The Rest of the Best

 

@natasha_tracy Warning Signs of a Suicide Attempt
[SEO: “Some of these predictive factors are noticeable by others, while others are not. The biggest factor in predicting a suicide attempt, no surprise to me, is anxiety. While 80% of people who attempted suicide had a depressed mood, 92% had severe anxiety. (Emphasis in original.) It is my belief the nervous (anxious) energy of anxiety is often what causes people to act on their suicidal thoughts.”

Includes lists of both predictive and non-predictive factors for suicide. “If those are the predictors of a suicide attempt that’s actually good news because now we can know for what to look. We can identify high-risk people and high-risk times for ourselves and others.”]

@healthyplace Are You Lonely?
[SEO: Discusses what is loneliness?; what would it feel like if you were not lonely?; 7 ways to relieve loneliness; and “get close to five” — a plan to include five people in your life that you can feel close to.]

@KimbersP Simple changes can have a huge impact on people’s mental health. The Mental Health Foundation’s tips.
[SEO: “Anyone can make simple changes that have a huge impact on their mental health and wellbeing. We’ve come up with ten practical ways to take care of yourself and get the most from life.” These are broad categories that everyone would do well to address, or improve upon.]

@ashwinsanghi Why We Find It Hard to Do Things That Are Good for Us
[SEO: A great discussion about various types of resistance that hold us back from doing things that are good for us, that feel great when done, and even that we want to do … but somehow don’t. Are these things familiar? Resistance to change; to what we might find; to being nice to ourselves; to trusting a process; to our own humanity. Yes, these things still follow me around like my shadow.]

 
 
 

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Favorite TweetStuff (04/06/12) ~ Enjoy! ~

‏Happy Friday and weekend! Each week I gather favorite items from my Twitter stream, which may be funny, beautiful, or reflect on cultural happenings. Enjoy!

 

@Quotes4Writers “A real book is not one that we read, but one that reads us.” ~ W H Auden

‏@AmazingPics Earth Hour 2012 — Interactive Before and After Photos
[SEO: This is very cool! The Big Picture brings the world’s most recognizable buildings and landmarks as they were fully lit. Click the same picture and it fades to what it became for Earth Hour.]

@natasha_tracy “I don’t want to achieve immortality through my work. I want to achieve it through not dying.” ~ Woody Allen

‏@pourmecoffee NASA’s visualization of two years of ocean currents is mesmerizing in its complexity. (video)

 

@LillyAnn “Worry is a misuse of the imagination.” ~ Dan Zadra

@heykim Google Goes All Out With April Fools Day; Kangaroo Street View, Gmail Tap & 8-Bit Maps
[SEO: Remember Pong? The maps kind of look like that!]

@pourmecoffee “Look at you, full of hope for your baseball team on opening day before your dreams get crushed. You look adorable.”

@heykim “Today marks the start of the 63rd season behind the microphone for Hall of Fame broadcaster Vin Scully!” (via @Dodgers)
[SEO: I grew up with Vin Scully, and credit him completely with my love of baseball.]

@ashwinsanghi 60 Incredible Examples of Paper Art
[SEO: Some are whimsical, some geometrical, and some are just stunning in their intricacy.]

@AncientProverbs “The least initial deviation from the truth is multiplied later a thousandfold.” ~ Aristotle

 
 
 

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Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (03/30/12)

This week’s focus: child abuse survivors (but helpful for any trauma survivor)

I am honored to have my Twitter feed included in this list of 50 Best Twitter Feeds for Psychology Majors! Go check out the other 49, broken out into these categories: News; Organizations; Patients; and Professionals.

Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

Please Share My Stuff! You can now “like” and “share” this post everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

 
 
 
Best Tweets for Trauma and PTSD Survivors (03/30/12)

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@marielhemingway “The world breaks us all.
Afterward, some are stronger
at the broken places.” ~ Ernest Hemingway

 
 
 

Some Tweets to Ponder

 

@WisdomalaCarte “Every thought is undermined, by all the history inside.” ~ Staind

@soulseedz “Sometimes I wish life was written in pencil so we could erase it and write it all over again.” ~ T Wanniarachi

@healthyplace “Ignore those that make you fearful and sad, that degrade you back towards disease and death.” ~ Rumi

@800273TALK “To me, if life boils down to one thing, it’s movement. To live is to keep moving.” ~ Jerry Seinfeld

@LillyAnn “Empathy creates the channel for your soul’s expression.”

‏@WisdomalaCarte “I’m lost, but I’m hopeful.” ~ Alanis Morissette

 

Linked Tweets

 

Child Abuse In the News

 

@SarahEOlson2009 April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month. Learn how to create awareness in your community.
[SEO: Site offers a treasure trove of resources and tip sheets you can use to promote child abuse prevention awareness in your own community year-round. Includes a comprehensive list of topics in the left column of the site.]

@mjdub Yo! Philly News With church child-rape: trial set to open, tensions abound
[SEO: “The trial of Msgr. William J. Lynn, who for 12 years led the office that recommended priests’ assignments and monitored their conduct, marks the first in the nation for a church supervisor accused of covering up child sex abuse.”]

 

The Rest of the Best

 

@PsychCentral Will The Good Girl [or Boy] Please Stand Up
[SEO: Post describes a childhood wherein children are made to feel they must be perfect to be loved and lovable. (Or in some child abuse survivors’ lives, to survive.) “What those kids are left with later in life is that they can’t ever do the wrong thing. They have to be ‘perfect’ in the eyes of the world. They can’t complain when they feel overwhelmed. They aren’t allowed to have negative feelings towards a person in authority.”

“We have to stand up for this less perfect side of our personalities. This is what frees us from our depression, our judgmental beliefs against others, our own imprisonment that was first imposed on us by others, but becomes a self made prison as we grow up.”]

@BobbiEmel The courage to be (self) compassionate
[SEO: Describes an exercise to explore self-compassion, and discusses why it is so hard to do for many of us. Refutes four myths of self-compassion: that it is selfish; indulgent; doesn’t motivate as well as self-criticism; and is wimpy.

“In reality, allowing compassion toward yourself is one of the most courageous things you can do. It requires you to go against the grain of our culture and to express loving-kindness for yourself. … And, instead of using bravado and aggression to achieve goals, self-compassion creates the safety that is needed for you to gently critique yourself to meet your objectives and grow personally.”]

@goodthingz 75 Bold Tips for When Fear Grips Your Mind (via @theboldlife)
[SEO: “You can learn to live a bold life by choosing to let go of fear when you feel tortured by your own thoughts. When you can’t sleep at night, when you are obsessed with failing or not feeling good enough, decide to take action.”

This list of 75 ways to do some self-care may seem obvious, but I often need a reminder to take care of myself. When you need a boost away from anxiety and fear, do something else to break the cycle.]

@natasha_tracy Stress as a Precursor to Self-Harm
[SEO: “So we have to deal with that stress in order to get our nervous system back to normal. We do this in lots of ways: taking hot baths, ranting with a friend, dealing with the problem and yes, self-harming. Why would self-harming be in the list? Well, it seemed like the best idea at the time.” This post contains many links to other posts about stress, anxiety, and self-harm.

I’d like to add that self-harm comes in many disguises. For me, it’s eating certain foods which are comforting and make me zone out. I eat them knowing they impact my weight and my diabetes. I began this behavior (and many others) as a young child to cope with the abuse I was experiencing. I still have trouble not going there on auto-pilot.]

@healthyplace After the Diagnosis of Mental Illness: Fear of the Future
[SEO: “I am not asking you to embrace your illness, although this might happen at some point, but I do believe that allowing mental illness to define your life is terrible. It’s terrible because it does not allow us to move forward, to enjoy life on life’s terms, and live less in fear but in anticipation.”]

@zebraspolkadots Sharing; a new perspective…I hope you find the power in this message. “Please Don’t Call Me a Sexual Abuse Survivor”
[SEO: While I applaud the sentiment expressed here, I also know that most child abuse survivors go through phases of recovery. The first one may be recognizing the truth of their childhood — which takes time, can be excruciatingly painful and depressing, and creates doubt and distortions. As bad as it is, I don’t think anyone’s truth about themselves can be or should be glossed over. There will, however, be a time later when the following words will be looked at with hope for the future.

“I want discourse where I am no longer cast as a bystander in my own life. Therefore, I have made the decision for myself, and on behalf of the 1 out of 4 women and 1 out of 6 men like me, to no longer refer to myself as a survivor of sexual abuse. It keeps me stuck in the violence that was committed against me. It prevents me from seeing myself as an agent of positive change, in my life and in the lives of others. Furthermore, by reinforcing the moments of my most significant pain, it disconnects me from my joy.”]

 
 
 

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