Favorite TweetStuff (week ending 01/21/11)

I’m back, and sooo happy to be silly once in awhile again! Each week I rescue choice items from my tweet stream that are amusing, odd, gorgeous, and often quite fun. Plus, it’s something to do while snowed in waiting for temps to go below 0. :) Enjoy! (And by the way, a belated Happy New Year!)

@iheartquotes “A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him.” ~ David Brinkley

@HuffingtonPost 10 ridiculously cute baby animals to get you through Thursday (via @DrKathleenYoung)
[SEO: I doubt I will ever think of a Slimy Salimander as cute. But his mama probably does!]

@MindfullyChange “Action speaks louder than words but not nearly as often.” ~ Mark Twain

@paul_steele 18 of the Strangest Roads from Around the World
[SEO: Some of these are not only strange, but would be terrifying to be on them!]

@Quotes4Writers “Time you enjoyed wasting is not wasted time.” ~ T S Eliot

@PsychDigest “The road to success is always under construction.” ~ Jim Miller

@goodthingZ The Work of Lego Artist Nathan Sawaya
[SEO: This is definitely a “wow!”]

 

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About My Year-End Project: Best PTSD Resources Pages

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I’ve spent much of the last four weeks immersed in my year-end project, culminating in three new pages (not posts): 2010 Best PTSD Resources for Trauma Survivors Part 1, Part 2, and coming tomorrow, Part 3. It suddenly occurred to me that blog subscribers who aren’t on Twitter probably don’t know why the Friday Best Tweets posts were suspended the last few weeks, since new pages are not forwarded to subscribers. My apologies!

I began posting Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors on New Year’s Eve 2009, in large part because I saw so many wonderful resources passing into Twitter obscurity, and wanted a way to keep them more permanently. But the Best Tweets posts eventually suffered from the same problem: they’ve become buried in this blog. I make liberal use of tags, so search is fairly good, but there is no index. So I’ve put the best of them into three permanent pages, each with its own linked index.

In my wildest dreams, I somehow thought I could pull together, organize, and annotate 600 links over a few months’ time, and present them all on New Year’s Eve 2010. Well, better late than never! I also initially believed I could do this again every New Year’s Eve! From where I sit today, that is purely insane. :)

I will publish the third installment tomorrow (Friday) evening, and spend some time next week spiffing up the cross-linking between the three pages. Eventually, I’ll drop the “2010” because most of these resources are timeless. Plus, I’ll indicate new additions, and regularly verify that links are still valid.

I’m so grateful to @Splinteredones and @AndreaInIowa for all the pep talks, encouragement, and support, especially during the last three weeks!

Last but certainly not least, have a joyful, meaning-filled new year! Thank you all for supporting me and this blog!

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Four New Blogs Added to "Dissociation Blog Showcase"! (DBS)

Special Request: If you find value in this blog showcase, please add the Dissociation Blog Showcase link to your blogroll so others can find it. Thanks!

We have amazing writers amongst us who give insight and hope to anyone struggling with dissociation, or to their loved ones. It’s a brain trust, and I treasure it. When I find new blogs, I update the Dissociation Blog Showcase (DBS) on Sunday evenings. Tonight I’ve added the following four new blogs:

Have you got parts? Dissociative Identity Disorder and Me

JUST BE REAL

LOVE IS STRONGER THAN PAIN

Plural

Please use the DBS link above to access these blogs, and check out the entire directory of (currently) 187 dissociation-related blogs!

As always, be careful and safe. Many of these blogs do not provide trigger warnings, nor are they obligated to do so.

Still on the way: I’ve received requests for inclusion of some DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder) information and awareness sites, which are not “blogs” per se. I’m planning to add a new section for these types of sites to the index, so please let me know if you have any favorites. (The two sites currently in the queue are DID World Map and DIDiva.com.) This addition must be put off until mid-January, however, which gives you time to send me your picks. Thanks!

If you, or someone you know, experiences dissociation and blog about it, write to me with the URL at

sarah.e.olsonATgmailDOTcom

I review each blog before adding it to the Showcase. Thanks so much for the feedback and well-wishes for this project!

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Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors (week ending 12/24/10)

Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

NEW and REALLY COOL: You can now “like” and “share” this post everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)

 

 

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@lizstrauss “Imagine if we could restore words
back to their original meaning. Words like
peace, joy, wonder, good will, wishes…”

 

Six Standalone Tweets to Ponder

@DrMelanieG “How do you give in a way that enriches rather than depletes you?”

@larryczerwonka “Sometimes when we are generous in small, barely detectable ways it can change someone else’s life forever.” ~ Margaret Cho

@DalaiLama “Once you encourage the thought of compassion in your mind, once it becomes active, then your attitude towards others changes automatically.”

@rcinstitute “ThoughtfulThursday: the most important holiday reminder is to stay present with your true needs and feelings.”

@visityourself “Fully living requires embracing the not-beautiful, the not-spiritual, the confusion, and the aversion to it all.”

@DepressionForum “In the right light, at the right time, everything is extraordinary.” ~ Aaron Rose

 

Linked Tweets

Depression Resources Over the Holidays
and Throughout the Year

 

@NAMIMass Know the lifeline 1-800-273-8255 or @800273TALK 24/7 when you or someone you know needs help
[SEO: Between now and New Year’s Day, many people you may know are lonely, hurting, and may reach out for help. Be the person who knows how to help them.]

@NAMIMass Depression At The Holidays
[SEO: “Depression can even affect someone who’s never experienced it before. Why does this happen and what can you do about it?”]

@SarahEOlson2009 Top Ten Depression Blogs 2010 | World of Psychology
[SEO: These are all excellent blogs! Highly recommended. You are not alone!]

 

The Rest of the Best

 

@psychcentral Authenticity and Body Image
[SEO: Article focuses on cultural norms that undermine women’s confidence in their own bodies as they grow up and compare themselves to stereotypical “thin people” and images in magazines, etc., and how that blocks one from true authenticity in life. In a similar way but for very different reasons, many survivors of child abuse grow up with confusion, distortions, and hating their bodies. In my life, I’ve felt either “separate from” my body, or betrayed by it — and neither of these lend to personal authenticity.]

@MentalHelpNet Wired for Empathy and Connection
[SEO: Why we are wired for empathy and connection. “In the past social isolation in a community meant certain death and social rejection was the path to a ‘broken heart.’ Well, Naomi Eisenberger and Matthew Lieberman at UCLA did a study published in 2003 that found that the same areas of the brain light up when experiencing social rejection as when experiencing physical pain.” The included 10 minute video, “The Empathic Civilisation”, is a gem, and a keeper. Via one long continuous whiteboard, the narrator draws much the history of empathy since the dawn of man — how it changed history, and why it is relevant today.]

@NAMIMass Therapists Use ‘Canine Assistants’ to Comfort, Cheer Patients; Duke Senses an Anxiety Disorder
[SEO: Fascinating read. A therapist’s dog lies on the floor next to a patient with anxiety disorders, or sits on the couch next to one with depression — and in some cases the dog knows which applies before the therapist does. “How can dogs be that sensitive to human emotions? Experts speculate that people give off tell-tale scents under certain physical or psychological conditions that only dogs can detect. That acute sense of smell also enables specially trained service dogs to recognize when seizures, diabetic comas or heart attacks are imminent in humans.”]

@psychcentral Meeting Again for the First Time: a true story about a patient with anterograde amnesia
[SEO: “Samantha remembers everything from before about 15 years ago. She remembers going to college, having friends and ambitions, and falling in love. But her description of the accident is distant and clinical; a factual recitation of what she has been told happened. In a casual conversation you might not realize that you were talking to someone who would, only hours later, have no recollection of ever meeting you.” This woman greets her therapist each week as though they are meeting for the first time — because for her, it is. I’ve struggled my entire life with memory issues, and having grasp of something just beyond reach has often felt hopeless. But I had context, and short term memory. I honestly don’t think I could have endured what this woman faces every hour of every day.]

@SarahEOlson2009 Reading from the Book of 2010: Your Life Lessons
[SEO: “For sometimes in looking back and taking stock, you can more clearly see the paths you’ve travelled – and get a sense of who you’re becoming as you do.” A thought-provoking series of questions (and questions within those questions) about “what have been your hard times this year, and how did you get through them?”; “who inspired you this year?”; “when did you feel strongest this year?”; and “what’s it like to remember and consolidate these learnings from your own life?”.]

 

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Favorite TweetStuff (week ending 12/24/10)

My Christmas Eve Favorite TweetStuff is a bonanza of goodness and fun! Truly, there is something here for just about everyone — gorgeous, amazing, inspiring, cool science, and laugh out loud awesome stuff! Enjoy!

@SarahEOlson2009 Four hour video time lapsed to two minutes; yes, the moon really did turn red. :) Solstice Lunar Eclipse

@tobywneal Everyone should try Christmas in HI at least once
[SEO: A great peek into cultures and customs in a Hawaiian Christmas! Pictures and commentary.]

@imaginewriters “If my doctor told me I had only six minutes to live, I wouldn’t brood. I’d type a little faster.” ~ Isaac Asimov

@Gimundo 6 Clever, Fun, and Inspiring Christmas Videos
[SEO: This 6 video set includes “Food Court Hallelujah Chorus” and “How To Wrap A Cat For Christmas”. On a different note, is a short documentary wherein the filmmaker asks dozens of people in Chicago and Detroit: “If you could have anything, without limitation, for Christmas, what would that be?” Many people seem stumped, hesitant to say a dream out loud. Some go to the stock “$1 million” answer. Then it gets poignant. A man asks merely for gloves. A woman wishes she could see her whole family again, though she knows it will never happen. People become more reflective. “Do I wish selfishly for myself, or ask for something for everyone?” So… what would you want for Christmas?]

@PsychDigest “I’m living so far beyond my income that we may almost be said to be living apart.” ~ e. e. cummings

@AmazingPics Animals Giving a High Five
[SEO: Lots of unusual shots of animals giving high fives. Who knew crocodiles were such good sports! I especially like the anteater in the black sweater waving from on top of the washing machine! (You’ll just have to look to verify whether I made that up. :)]

@Tamavista “Generosity gives assistance, rather than advice.” ~ Vauvenargues

@goodthingZ Incredible Snapshots of Sonic Booms
[SEO: Who knew you could SEE sonic booms.]

@DrAverySlyker “It’s what you learn after you know it all that counts.” ~ John Wooden

@pourmecoffee Winner of YouTube Play of Year: Father films one-armed son winning swim heat. Nice.
[SEO: At the same link, the runners-up, also amazing sports feats by young ‘uns.]

@heykim The YEAR 2010 in 60 seconds

@Splinteredones “Stop a moment. Close your eyes and imagine internal peace. That’s how peace comes, individually wrapped.”

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Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors (week ending 12/17/10)

Best Tweets for Trauma Survivors is a weekly Friday feature. My selections are entirely subjective, and I know it will never be possible to include every great resource tweeted. But I can try! I’ve personally read all tweeted links, and believe them to be of great value.

Disclaimer: I am in no way responsible for content found on any other website. Stay safe, and don’t follow links if you believe you might be triggered by them. Also, I will not be re-checking links from older Best Tweets posts, and if the site’s archived URL is different from the one I’ve provided here, you may need to do a search on their site.

NEW and REALLY COOL: You can now “like” and “share” this post everywhere with the touch of a button or two at the end of the linked tweets! Feel free to do any or all of that! (And thanks.)
 

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@Tamavista “Make voyages. Attempt them.
There’s nothing else.” ~ Tennessee Williams

 

Six Standalone Tweets to Ponder

@goodthingZ “You do not become good by trying to be good, but by finding the goodness that is already within you.” ~ Eckhart Tolle

@visityourself “Before trying to accept a painful situation, accept your own aversion to the situation. Breathe into the aversion.”

@PsychDigest “A rock pile ceases to be a rock pile the moment a single man contemplates it, bearing within him the image of a cathedral.” ~ St. Exupery

@Tamavista “The subconscious is ceaselessly murmuring, and it is by listening to these murmurs that one hears the truth.” ~ G. Bachelard

@soulseedz “Say ‘yes’ to now. Say ‘I don’t know’ to mystery. Say ‘thank you’ for the gift of being alive.”

@karenkmmonroy “Spirit cherishes and ego prizes.”

 

Linked Tweets

Holidays

 

@psychcentral Reflecting on 2010: A Self Compassion Break (via @Mindful_Living)
[SEO: “…we need to look back on our lives so we can learn from the past, be more intentional in the present and be well in the future. What we need in the process is a little self-compassion.”]

@ssanquist 21 Holiday Stress Busters (via Beyond Blue)
[SEO: A light-hearted list of 21 slides about how to simplify, prioritize, and delegate your way through the holidays. I especially like “Hold Onto the Wonder”: “Even though I’m one stressed-out chick during the holidays, I still manage to enjoy myself. Because even stress can’t steal away the wonder of the season. Nothing can. Not illness, to-do lists, dysfunctional families, or crummy weather. If you feel your wonder begin to go, grab it back! It’s your best shield against stress.”]

@psychcentral Ack! Christmas is next week. Are you ready? Get relaxed with these Holiday Survival Tips
[“Wouldn’t it be nice to get through the season with just a little less stress and a few more moments, and calm and peace?”]

The Rest of the Best

 

(A special thanks to @goodthingZ who consistently tweets unusual, thought-provoking resources!)

@goodthingZ 5 Powerful Ways to Forgive Those Who Have Wronged You
[SEO: Great article; very detailed about what forgiveness means or doesn’t mean, and how to go about it to clear the clutter of energy devoted to negativity. What I like is that here there are not just two choices: forgive and be free, or don’t forgive and be miserable. The third choice is: don’t forgive, but cultivate acceptance.]

@Mindful_Living When You Just Can’t Sleep
[SEO: “One of the reasons anxious thoughts continue to spin is because we’re caught up in them relating to the problem of sleep from the anxious thoughts instead of stepping out of the whirlwind of the mind and relating to the anxious thoughts.”]

@goodthingZ An Awesome Guide to Inner Peace (“this article is superb!”) (via @aflourishinglif)
[SEO: “Showing up as a loving presence to yourself is one of the most sane and compassionate things you could ever do.”]

@ssanquist Let Sleeping Dogs Lie – or not?! (via Discussing Dissociation)
[SEO: The post author, Kathy Broady, LCSW, has a cute pile of new puppies (pics included!), and outlines the many ways in which puppies (or kittens!) enrich your life, and add to your mental well-being. She provides specific benefits of having a pet for each of several mental disorders or conditions. I’ve had cats in my life since I was three months old. They love unconditionally, make me laugh, and provide an anchor to reality in times when I’ve not been all that convinced I was real. All of that is priceless.]

@goodthingZ 9 Ways to Innovate Yourself
[SEO: “Sometimes we are stuck into looking at something in a set way. It can be the way we go about a particular task or problem. It becomes a ‘given’ that we unquestionably assume it’s just the way things are. A fresh new perspective can give it a whole new meaning and to our own amazement we realize there is a better way of dealing with it we never imagined could be possible.”]

@NAMIMass Mindfulness Meditation On A Par With Antidepressants At Preventing Depression Relapse
[SEO: “Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy (MBCT) is being increasingly used as a psychotherapeutic approach for stress reduction, pain management, behavior change, and for self-management of symptoms of depression. MBCT does not use drugs, but teaches patients how to be aware of and to a certain extent regulate emotions so they can spot triggers of relapse early, plus make changes in lifestyle that help them gain a sense of balance in mood and hold the gains for longer.”]

@goodthingZ 10 Life Lessons from the movie “Elf”
[SEO: “You might not share my affinity for elf culture, or for Buddy. But I guarantee that you’ll gain something from the life lessons I gathered after watching the film yet another time.”]

 

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